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how soon is to soon?
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How soon is to soon to live with someone?
is 6 months too soon?
is 6 months too soon?
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TBH, I think it depends on alot of things.
Some people move in after two weeks and are happy with it
others are madly in love for a year and shit hits the fan when they move together, because of countless conflicts etc.
you have to decide that for yourself, about how the relationship is running etc.
If I moved in with somebody, I would keep my own place on for a while just in case it wasn't meant to be.
Hit the nail on the head there.
That you ask the question susggests that you have doubts yourself. I;d say that you weren't therefore "ready".
This does seem aout right.
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I moved in with my boyfriend after being together for 5 months.
Wouldn't recommend moving in until you know someone pretty well though. For some couples that could be a few months, others a year or more.
Like the others have said though, if you're asking if it's too soon then you obviously feel that it is.
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Totally agree with this. It's easy not to think about it when you're all head-over-heelsy, but I think it's important.
I've been with my bf since Christmas (although I've known him for a few years), we've already talked seriously about me moving in with him, and I don't feel like it's too soon. Having said that, if things didn't work out (although I totally think they will), I can very easily and quickly move back in here (I've been living back with my parents since I broke up with my ex).
Be sensible and you'll be fine
I think its when ever you are completely comfortable with each other and you know its gonna last id like to leave it about a year until i move in with my bf
agree with you here when it feels rite
caz :thumb: n andi