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Average Time For Sex
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Hi
I was just wonderring about how long the average time is for sex from penetration to climaxing?
Ive got a new gf and starting to worry about how long I should be lasting
I was just wonderring about how long the average time is for sex from penetration to climaxing?
Ive got a new gf and starting to worry about how long I should be lasting
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There are no 'averages' when it comes to sex, because quite honestly, we're all so so different in our likes, dislikes, attitudes and abilities.
Just stop worrying about, talk to your girlfriend about it, afterall she's the one who'll know what to say.
ETA: that includes men suffering from premature ejaculation. My sources tell me the average for men excluding those is 7.3 minutes. Remember, knowledge is power.
Yes, for we also have a reserve in our stiff upper lips
7.3???? SEVEN POINT THREE????? Blimey..I must have just been lucky in the past.....now I see why some girls just aren't bothered...7.3 minutes is hardly worth it!!!!
3 strokes and always under par.
:thumb:
Ha i got such a hidin for that.
It varies loads for me and my boyfriend sometimes its about 5-10 minutes other times its like 30-45 minutes sometimes even longer tbh i dont really think it matters as long as you both get satisfied, Just dont worry about it just enjoy yourselves
POTW Surely?
Although we need to work on your spelling
Yours or hers?
I dont think I could last 20mins! :nervous:
Ha. I'm sure one of my exes has done worse than that.
I'm sure he came in like a minute once (I say once but it happened quite frequently when he didn't see me for a while).
(True though...why bother?! )
There is a chart somewhere on the internet. There are varying steps in that scale of lenght representing different degrees of manliness. So always train a lot, you don't want to be embarrassed!!
19 minuets, for the first time that day seemed aboiut right at the time
Might as well not worry about it and just enjoy it. There is always next time.
Sex is most fun when you tell yourself i'll do everything I can to please the girl, if its not enough tough I want to enjoy it too. Selfish attitude maybe but it seems to work wonders for both people. Confidence in the bedroom is attractive even if its faked, I would say about 50% of sexual pleasure is in you and your partners attitudes and the way you encourage mindstate in each other. So if you cum quick shes attractive your having fun, don't worry you have fingers/sex toys/toungue. And if you have trouble coming at all I have yet to succeed solving it, but I suspect relaxation is needed.
At a guess I would say 10-15 minutes maybe average. Its hard to tell many so many people say hours which I doubt is true in most cases. If it is im going to invest in the KY-Jelly company.
There are hundreds maybe thousands of techniques for improving sexual performance the more miraculous ones tending to be unlikely. For improving erections and stamina. Get fit. Eat well. Control your thoughts, but have fun. Don't worry.
If your genourous and considerate, and try hard to please her in the bedroom with what you can do and whatever lasting times you are able, and she is still obviously unhappy (don't be paranoid if shes really unhappy you'll know beyond all shadow of a doubt) then she is either really fussy or just a generally discontented person anyhow, and is probably not helping you toward her specific buttons and preferences in the things which dont go down (I definately think girls should say what they want and like, they are all so different) so its her fault anyhow.
Insecurities ruin sex.
I don't think the OP is going to 'worry' now. This thread is so old that you have risen from the dead, that he is probably a walking kama sutra of sexual prowess and knowledge.
(Although it is a long and considered reply ... )
:yes: I'll close it now. Welcome to TheSite Jericho, keep posting.