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You can tell those girls are American by how white their teeth are ...
As well as their tans ....
Surprised he fell for that photo ..
Yes he is worth it - cos he's a scumbag so he deserves a bit of a lesson
Personally I think that it says more anout you than him in a similar way to that thread which was in Waste Time a few weeks ago.
But if it makes you happy...
I think iut says to fuck her about. If you poeple fuck you about and you let them off scott free, what to say every cunt won;t tryt it.
I{t aint goign to hurt anything but his pride. A lesson well learnt.
So glad you're not my ex, but then I'd hope I wouldn't do anything to deserve a plan so intricate and demeaning.
Why should it say more about her than him. Hes obviously a twat and no doubt Vicky isn't the only person to be compltely messed about by him. Shes just played a joke on him to hurt his pride a bit. Its hardly a patch on what he has done to her. Fair enough if she'd done something really nasty like tearing up his clothes or smashing his car.. but she hasn't. She just had a little fun at his expense and I think she deserves it.
his actions alone say something about him. That much is clear. he's a twat IMHO and he will find himself alone - that is his comeuppance.
Woah, hang on. In the waste time thread we criticised someone who humiliated his girlfriend and to me the only difference here is that you all have a connection with Vicky and so it's "go girl" type reaction.
But she's tried to humiliate him - his friends are involved, she's posted a thread on here and included transcripts of conversations with him with the intention of getting us all to laugh at him. Not really that different, in my opinion, to the thread in waste time.
Like I said, it's her choice and I am sure that she feels better for it. But, for me, she comes across as bitter and twisted about things. I understand why and what prompted it but what she has done does not change the way he behaved.
I would have more respect if she had held her head high and got on with her life in a "fuck you, I don't need a shit like you anyway" approach, or alternatively like the sentiments of "I Will Survive". It about being stronger than him, about showing him thatshe doesn't care about what he did because there is more to her, as a person, that being his grilfriend and he isn't worth the effort anyway.
Just my 2p worth.
No it doesn't. It says "you really got to me". What this kid needs is a drop in his sense of self importance, not an increase.
I rarely go in Waste time so I have no idea what you're talking about.
I don't think the 2 are mutually exclusive.
Yeah he does.
The "you are nothing special" lesson. The "plenty more fish in the sea" lesson.
That adds an interesting twist, didn't know that bit.
So, he cheats on a girl with her and then he cheats on her. Gosh, what a surprise... He'll do it again too because there are to many people out there who think that he will change for them.
.. and she had previously helped that happen.
Would never have argued that it was...
Hardly. He still cheated on you, which was the whole reason why you acted in the way you did. You haven't changed anything really.
Like I said (twice now ) if it has made you happy then that is your choice, I'm just giving is different perspective.