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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    a nice smile, a nice body and a girl with confidence
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lots of things are sexy. Girls with confidence, where you can have a bit of banter without worrying about what you say to her, and you can compliment her and have her actually like it, rather than assume some ulterior motive for you doing it. Not having everything in common, to add to that teasing and pisstaking about their tastes. Girly girls. Learning about someone's insecurities (especially when they are generally confident). Someone who doesn't come into your room, lie on the bed, take their clothes off, then expect you to do everything else. Impulsive things that shows she cares/she's thinking about you. And looks wise, nice bum/legs, nice hair, well dressed and obviously a pretty face.

    Actually, that was probably more what I like in a relationship, rather than what I find sexy.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just what turns me on.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, given past trends:

    Psychosis
    Mental illness
    Look of wild panic / abandon in the eyes
    and lately, treachery

    Incidentally, what's it like to be ugly?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ShyBoy wrote: »
    really nice boobs are quite sexy.

    What do you define as really nice though??
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lipsy wrote: »
    Dark hair (that I can run my hands through)
    Muscles
    Dark eyes or blue eyes with dark eyelashes
    Confidence
    A nice grabbable arse

    Bugger, i have everything except muscles! Oh, well, never mind!

    I find sexy hairstyles, sense of humour, Eyes (especially) and nice curvy body to be very sexy.

    Oh, and huge boobs if you can get them! ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Red-haired girls are hot as.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Kermit wrote: »
    Red-haired girls are hot as.

    woop!! :yippe:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    beyond a certain point you don't get the red as a natural colour. I mean naturally red-haired girls.

    Phwoar, etc.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Kermit wrote: »
    Red-haired girls are hot as.

    j'agree.

    I've noticed a trend with my fancying of:
    Julianne Moore
    Nicole Kidman
    Lindsay Lohan

    I don't know why, a girl with red / 'ginger' (I prefer to call it strawberry blonde, lol) hair just does it for me.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    In a man;

    Piss taking. I find it extremely sexy. I love it when I can have a lighthearted piss take with a guy, and he'll throw it right back in equal measure.
    A man who can make me laugh - so sexy.
    A grin - a cheeky grin and a real hearty laugh.
    That look in their eyes, a look of pure cheek, yet 'I wanna rip your clothes off' sort of stare.
    A man who has some insecurity is sexy, because he's not perfect and doesn't claim to be. Like, if he had a tiny beer belly that he hated, I'd find it sexy as hell.
    An open mind and a laid back persona.
    Facial hair - Just, pure sex.
    Piercings/tats - equally sexy, depending where they're placed.

    I think that's enough for now :blush::naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Curly haired, lean bodied, well-read, well-travelled, open-minded, free-thinking, confident, sociable, spontaneous, experienced, shiny, happy person with an interesting past and therefore (hopefully) lots of interesting things to say for themselves.

    I can't ask for more than that in the sexiness stakes and ding-ding, I think I have hit the sexy jackpot :)

    I was gonna say big willy and the stamina of a marathon runner too... but didn't want to lower the tone ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my boyfriend when he looks rugged (bit o' stubble) and smiles with his perfect teeth and frodo-esque blue eyes..swoon!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Im going to add some more.

    Appearance:
    Muscles (not too much though)
    Niice eyes (like my boyfriends loooovely green eyes =D)
    Good dress sense

    Personality:
    Confidence
    Sense of humour
    Sponetinuity (sp)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    shyness / coyness.

    Arrogance doesn't do it for me at all.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    for me:

    Appearance:
    *some facial hair (looks stubbly, but is actually smooth)
    *nice bum
    *nice,big,soft hands (also helps if they know how to use them :naughty: )
    *Soleful eyes that protray alot of emotion

    Personality
    *Chatty
    *inquistive and interested in me - asks alot of questions
    *passionate (about things that mean alot to him, and in the bedroom ;) )
    *a little bit of unsureness.....as in they know they aint gods gift, is cute!
    *a gentleman in public, but then a dirty sod in the sack!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Your name sums up what i find sexy!

    Lost + Confused


    Those two combined in a girl in my bed and i'm on to a winner!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Mr Orange wrote: »
    Your name sums up what i find sexy!

    Lost + Confused


    Those two combined in a girl in my bed and i'm on to a winner!


    :lol::lol: :flirt:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    briggi wrote: »
    Curly haired, lean bodied, well-read, well-travelled, open-minded, free-thinking, confident, sociable, spontaneous, experienced, shiny, happy person with an interesting past and therefore (hopefully) lots of interesting things to say for themselves.

    Swoon. That sounds like the lad I fancy the ARSE off of. And he did a lovely thing and bought me a !!!s ticket, too. SWOON. Well, he's not lean. More skinny, but he's got the most sexy collar bones and stomach I've ever seen. He has an adorable freckle in his bellybutton, too...awwwww! And his bum, cooooooor.
    briggi wrote: »
    I was gonna say big willy and the stamina of a marathon runner too... but didn't want to lower the tone ;)

    His willy's more than adequate and he DOESN'T yet have the stamina I require but it's getting dealt with. We just need to stop attempting to shag when hungover/on a comedown. :razz:

    Swoon.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I so wanna see what my babies would be like with ginger women! lol

    Just an experiment i d like to try one day :lol:

    In simple terms, a girl who keeps me on my toes and always manages to surprise me all the time! And it wouldnt hurt if she had a great body and pretty face at the same time although not always necessary. Dont be boring girls, say whats running through your heads cos that makes the best conversations!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    For me, a random selection of the following with a girl
    - Nice voice. Mellow chilled out sort of thing
    - Cheerful
    - Conversive
    - Smart(er than me)
    - Soulful eyes
    - Nice smile (and nice teeth)
    - Ghetto booty (big and round)
    - strong thighs
    - Tight jeans
    - Tight white jeans
    - Bright colours on brown skin
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