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How Many Times Have You Turned Down Sex?
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I believe I've only turned down a blatent offer of sex once in my life - i.e. girl said parents are away for the weekend, etc.
Main reason being the girl was in my class at Uni and I didn't fancy having a one night stand with someone I was gonna run into 5 times a week for the next 2 or 3 years.
Main reason being the girl was in my class at Uni and I didn't fancy having a one night stand with someone I was gonna run into 5 times a week for the next 2 or 3 years.
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Would go at it like a pneumatic drill for a couple of mins at a time, then stop for a couple of minutes (literally MINUTES at a time), then go at it again...he seemed to think we'd had a great time.....
That's a poor excuse lol!
Im not sure but lets say i can count it on one finger or less.....
One was a boyfriend at the time, and very demanding in that department so it put me off the entire thing. The other was a sexually frustrated mate, who decided he absolutely had to lose his virginity, and that I was the girl to take it. I did him a favour and declined. :rolleyes:
The other time I brought a guy back to mine and he made me feel really uncomfortable, so I kicked him out.
Lol, thats once for sure !!
With others I have refused sex loads and loads of times. But I've also said yes a lot
I have too many mingers coming at me. :yuck:
And im glad
Had some suggestive texts and drunken flirting when im out, which ive often made nothing of.
my reason being, i actually need to be attracted to the man first
turned down a couple of girls who were clearly gagging for it, which was just as well as they turned out to be nutjobs.
Yes, because you can always tell if the people you know have STIs. Its the ones you don't know that you have to watch out for.
I either:
1. Spend too long begging for it.
and/or
2. Pay too much for it.
to turn around and refuse it once it's out there!!
Possibly a more interesting question (and more depressing) is how many times you've been turned down for sex?
definatly more depressing! i'm fairly sure ive only turned down one guy, but i wish i had turned down a couple of the others! and iv been turned down twice. one went on to be my boyfriend, and the other went on to tell me he wished he hadnt said no!
Us poor girls get farrrrr too many men asking for sex/coming onto us for sex/talking to us to get us into bed/etc.
The last time I turned it down was on Thursday. There was this guy who overheard me laughing with my friends. I was whinging going "I aint had sex since January" and this guy suddenly popped up grinning and he said "I aint had it since December". I was like "What the fuck? Where have you come from?" I got a few free drinks out of him though. Haha. Serves him right for assuming I'm easy.