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hiccy/too intense?
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Kinda got 2 questions in one here....
First, I went to go see my "fuck buddy" yesterday and as I got back i looked in mirror and noticed a lovebite on my neck. This made me feel really dirty and cheap because myself and any people I know have the view that they look dirty. I am really annoyed he gave it to me - I didnt even notice him sucking hard. But anyway has anyone got any ideas of speeding up its removal. If my mum sees I will really be in for it and will loose the little freedom I have. Im fed up of wearing my hair down, and I am going away with the Army next thursday so have to have my hair in a bun and cant wear a high neck so it will be on full show. I put toothpaste on it last night as someone told me that helped but it hasnt.
Second, my "fuck buddy" has a very large penis. And when he pentrates me I start to orgasm VERY quickly, and the orgasm is SO intense i cant stop myself from stopping him bfor i climax. Its SO intense and I cant handle it. Is there something wrong with me, im almost scared to go see him again because I cant let him carry on its just too much. :banghead: I kind of get this feeling with other guys too that i almost want them to stop, but i generally hold back and let it happen with them.
Loads of thanks
First, I went to go see my "fuck buddy" yesterday and as I got back i looked in mirror and noticed a lovebite on my neck. This made me feel really dirty and cheap because myself and any people I know have the view that they look dirty. I am really annoyed he gave it to me - I didnt even notice him sucking hard. But anyway has anyone got any ideas of speeding up its removal. If my mum sees I will really be in for it and will loose the little freedom I have. Im fed up of wearing my hair down, and I am going away with the Army next thursday so have to have my hair in a bun and cant wear a high neck so it will be on full show. I put toothpaste on it last night as someone told me that helped but it hasnt.
Second, my "fuck buddy" has a very large penis. And when he pentrates me I start to orgasm VERY quickly, and the orgasm is SO intense i cant stop myself from stopping him bfor i climax. Its SO intense and I cant handle it. Is there something wrong with me, im almost scared to go see him again because I cant let him carry on its just too much. :banghead: I kind of get this feeling with other guys too that i almost want them to stop, but i generally hold back and let it happen with them.
Loads of thanks
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As Suzy mentioned, Arnica is good for healing bruises.
Eat foods high in bioflavonoids - think lemons, green peppers, broccoli. Boiflavonoids are also anti-inflamatory, so any slight swelling will be helped too.
Parsley has the ability to shrink small blood vessels. Crush some fresh parsley leaves and rub onto the area, and apparently, if this is repeated regularly, it should heal the bruise within a few days.
You could also bathe the area in Witch hazel, which disperses the blood and encourages healing.
anyone got any thoughts about the intense orgasm?
I have heard that girls do hold back form fuly climaxing when having sex or masturbating.
I don;t really know how to help you there other then just don't hold back, let yourself cum.
and it's cheap!! :yippe:
Yeah if it's not gone down, i would do a foundation and conceler jobby on your neck.
no im so stupid i didnt think of that :chin: , if id have realised he was sucking that hard I would have. I tired makeup it didnt work! Just got back from the army thing and it faded enuf for not many people to notice. I tried the toothpasts thing but it didnt work.
has anyone got any ideas for the too intense orgasm please? I tried just letting him do it but I still give in after a while :banghead:
yah i did
I got some fresh parsley from my garden tried that but didnt really apply it regularly enough - or i may have and it mite have heloed to the eventual dissapperance.....
I had lots and lots of lemon juice on pancake day - assumed this counts!
And i cooked a pastay thing that night with lots of peppers and broccoli in!! hehe
unfortunately i couldnt manage to get to any shops i am in college from 9-5 everyday.....
so yes i did try and no your efforts werent wasted thankyou!