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arghh
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I've just reached a point where it feels that i just cant be bothered anymore with relationships. I mean it just feel like the person in question is wasting my time and to be honest it drains the energy out of you. Why dont people just be honest and say what they feel, instead of faffing around. Anyway mini rant over, i think i should become more cynical.
Does anyone else just reach this point where you basically just cant be arsed anymore/?
Does anyone else just reach this point where you basically just cant be arsed anymore/?
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I feel your pain! Being single for a while definitely helped me be 'me' again!
Like the username by the way.
I also agree with your second point, I do wish people would just say what they feel - would make life so much easier!
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sometimes a person has all emotions bottled up inside them and they feel that their partner wont understand
it would be great to be in one of those relationships where you can confess all but if they dont it simply means they think you might laugh and find it trivial/they dont want to hurt your feelings or their afraid if they do bear all and find YOUR not that into them that hurts 10 times more than keeping quiet- human beings are just weird that way
Oh thank you. No what it is, its the initial stage trying to work out if someone likes you that just currently draining me. This person well shes dropped the hints she does like me i.e asking if im single etc but then you wont hear from her for a bit or she becomes cold, and basically im just sick of the games. She knows that im interested in her, but im just gonna leave it. Thats what i mean i cant be arsed with all the faffing around, if you like someone then just say. Oh also had a crap day today at work, but one more day left then freedom.