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Is this normal?
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OK so in the past couple of weeks (ok one week) i had one night stands with three different guys. Fair enough, I knew what I was doing, and wasn't expecting anything more. But over the past couple of days, all three have made it clear they would like to keep in contact. I am rather puzzled as I thought it was normally the girl who got hung up?
Im not complaining, but I thought at the time I made it pretty clear that I wasnt really looking for a relationship. It was an experiment really; girls are more my thing, but still all three are looking for dating or something. Is this normal? And why for the past two years, when I refused to sleep around, and only wanted a relationship did this not happen?
Gah the mind boggles.
Im not complaining, but I thought at the time I made it pretty clear that I wasnt really looking for a relationship. It was an experiment really; girls are more my thing, but still all three are looking for dating or something. Is this normal? And why for the past two years, when I refused to sleep around, and only wanted a relationship did this not happen?
Gah the mind boggles.
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Hard to say really.
Or maybe your giving off the vibe you don't don't give a shit/need a bloke so these guys are trying it on to seek your approval. Guys are stupid like that! ....So are birds for that matter!
Sorry that was more of a moan than an answer.
The whole point of taking it further and dating is to see if you do or don't have anything in common. You don't know until your in their company. Just because you met them in a club doesn't mean you can't take anything further on the basis of not knowing fuck all about them..
The next morning I was just like, nice to meet you, I had fun, see you around. Maybe its just reverse psychology, and they are all just mad that I didnt want them more or something.
If you don't want to take it any further then don't simple as that. No point going in to something you don't want to do.