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People do say I'm a really nice guy though but we all know that they finish last.
Ah well, at least my Mum loves me :yippe:
I sound like i'm talking myself up now but, well i am, but i think and feel that is how people who know me, see me
I dunno, people on here might think I'm a bit of a moan, lol. It's only because I don't really vent anything in real life, so sorry about that! I'd like to think I'm pretty loyal though, and am more than happy to listen when other people want to moan to me.
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In real life, people always tend to think I'm really laid back (I am, in some ways, but people are always shocked to find out I'm a bit of a worrier), a bit scatty, and a tiny bit defenceless (people tend to try to protect me - but I'm tougher than I look!). They also always think I'm a bit of a hypochondriac
Not even friends or family?
Anyway, on here: I dunno. Most people seem to be fairly nice to me, so I guess I haven't pissed too many people off (P&D not included, though everyone in there is sensible enough to not take anything personally). I don't really have a proper opinion of many people on this site, so I guess that not many people have one of me either.
In real life - proper friends: They probably think I'm laid back sometimes to the point of not being arsed when I should be, trustworthy and okay at listening/offering advice and opinions. They probably think I can be a bit of a moody twat sometimes, but not too much hopefully.
In real life - other people: Probably similar, but they will probably see me as a bit hot and cold. Sometimes I can be really chatty with workmates and the like, and others I'm probably a bit in a world of my own depending on my mood and what I'm doing (in reality, naturally I'm thinking of far more important things that whatever they have to say ). Oh, and unless it's a girl that I fancy, they often think I'm gay as well (girls that I fancy can usually tell that I fancy them though - quite good for hitting on someone's girlfriend right in front of him, and him being none the wiser).
In real life and on here I probably come across as a bit immature (which I am), but I'm never sulky or depressive and am always up for the craic.
In real life people think I'm a bit soft, but hopefully folk think my hearts in the right place. I do think I get patronised a little bit because I go with my heart over my head and I'm not one for conflict.
Hard to say really :chin:
In real life I'm seen as being a bit mad/quirky/weird and often suprise people when I can actually talk eloquently about something. I'm also really shy which comes across as being arrogant - however i also I sometimes cant' be bothered to make the effort to talk to people so i'm often in my own world. I also have a reputation for knowing everything - especially in relation to geography - directions etc etc. Lastly with the people I work with I probably don't care enough about the environment/world etc but with my friends I think i sometimes come accross as beign a bit of a serioud tree hugger.
It's a double-edged sword, made a few good friends over the internet and got to know a lot that mean much to me and vice versa, but I tend to come over as pertly and maybe a tad obnoxious at times I reckon.
In real life I am the bitch for everything. I hardly, HARDLY say no, when you invite me or need me for something. I usually leave a good movie in the middle, put away the super thrilling book, toss my studying things and forget my sluggishness, if someone asks me for whatever... I often am the group entertainer and am remembered by a lot of people by that.
I know you didn't ask to be judged (or arselicked ), but I really respect people like you (and similar others in this thread) - honest and straight talking who don't pussyfoot about.
Don't always agree with what people say, but I think everybody needs a bit of straight talking about them, and I wish I had a bit more of that about me
I'm not very good at guessing what people think of me.
I'd guess that you are grizzly, but a big teddy bear underneath and often snuggle up with your kitten and baby talk her/him.
In the real world peoples perception of me is pretty much very laid back, easy going type of bloke who doesn't take life too seriously. Here's hoping anyway.
On here- down often, nothing that exciting to say, caring maybe? supportive? No idea really.
In real life- one-thing-on-the-mind, dirty, thoughtful, jealous at times over certain things.
In real life - depends who. my family definitely see me as the black sheep, but they still like me. if anything happens when i'm home though, i'll be first to be blamed.
my friends think i'm a bit of a seshface as well i suppose. i'm very well-mannered and polite though and generally ok to be around. i have a sick sense of humour and like to use shockingly inappropriate statements for humour effect. some people don't like that, some do.
I think you'll lovely. Very caring and supportive especially in the health section. I think Missy said it another thread but I agree with her, you need a bit more self confidence, but then most people do (including me)
My friends think I am far too opinionated for my own good and even my other half thinks I have "too many principles". I'm not sure how that works, I don't think I have nearly enough... yet. Other than that, I think I am universally loved by my old muckers. They really are the shit
On here I guess there are some people who don't like me, but that's the nature of the beast. I think I'm usually pretty likeable/tolerable on here, I try and keep my cool and give advice whenever I can.
Yeah but, No but....
Why must you be so cruel :crying:
Thankyou I wasn't aware my low self confidence was that apparent, but I agree, like Thankyou again thou
Stop bullying me then.
Cunt
Charming.
It's my perception of you
Giving these posts some sort of relevance to the thread
Cheers Mort.
Lol who or what is Mort?!
You'll have to find out.
What about Dinlo? You must know that one.
ETA I thought this was the other perception thread. I'm all mixed up.
Lol now your confusing me.
And i don't take too kindly to the name calling, well not now i know what they mean!