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Once years ago in a communications class, on the first day we had to write first impressions of everybody and 90% of mine came back bitchy, but thats because I never said a word and just kept to myself. My shrink always told me bitchy and shy can be seen the same by outsiders.
You have Hobbes so automatically you do rock
i very rarely mean it in a nasty way!
i'm nice really. :angel:
Offline, friends and coworkers tend to see me as a bit of a party girl nowadays, and a bit of a slacker with regard to other things. Its disappointing, because I put a lot of effort into my uni work, its just not as interesting as other things I do so I don't talk about it as much. I've also found out recently that a lot of people have no idea about my insecurities and things I feel about myself, and have said how confident and self-assured I am. Weird.
Offline - Quiet until I get to know people, tends to keep herself to herself, can be friendly but can ignore people a lot at times.
Friends: think I'm feisty and unpredictable, the person they come to when they're crying but want to have fun not sit around moping.
Strangers: dunno really, I've been told I'm intimidating.
Think some people reckon the same about me...others, naughty but nice...been called a dark horse by some. Think some of my friends reckon I'm a tad mad lol. Think people have many perceptions of me, but I don't really mind. Just depends on what level people know me.
TheSite- im not really sure. i dont think ive really given myself a personality yet.. what do you guys think?
You are ze american, zerefore you are le poopay
In Real Life - I think I'm seen as funny friendly crazy random stupid kind blah blah blah all that sort of stuff. I am still slightly shy however the random crazy mental kind of shit i can pull means people don't believe me when i say i am still shy a bit ! It's a deep routed thing man i can't make it go away completely !
To be honest i don't care what people think of me I'm only out to look after me these days anyway
I will say this though, people don't really ever get to see the " real " me anymore i keep myself very withdrawn and only show what is necessary, unless it is someone i consider special that is.
broad and ethnocentric generalization, dontcha think? :razz:
You are right. British people don't shower. I'm sure we can agree on that one
Real life. People perceive me as a happy go lucky/confident/always smiling person. In fact I get depressed a lot and a lot of the time my happiness is fact because I have a view that friends and people in general won't want to know a shy/unconfident person so I fake it. It's quite easy. I rarely share my problems with anyone else because it takes me a while to open up. I do laugh a lot, but that's often to cover some sort of hurt inside.
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I think you rock yo. :thumb: The pocket-sized princess you are.
i love you too
Father Ted, only messing, fucking cunts. Hate ya's but I don't at the same time.
IRL, people think I'm more confident than I am, and I am (annoyingly) seen as the "leader" of the group. People listen to me when I tell them to shut up when they won't listen to everyone else. Tbh, I'm not entirely sure. But I know they all think more of me than they should do.
you always seemed very "leader" to me. dont really know why though.
In real life, I guess people see me as friendly but at the same time shy and reserved, helpful, attentive, I don't really know what else.
:no: You aint shy!!!!
Depends on the situation I'm in tbh.
Riiiiight.
I will never, ever understand how people can think I'm leader quality tbh. In my head I'm really insecure and nervous and shy and stuff like that.
Meh.
In real life: Shy, thick, quiet.
If it helps..I don't think you are! I think you're straight talking and genuine. Enuff arse licking before I yack up. Just wanted to say :yes:
RL: I seem to be seen as a bit of leader i think, my friends will suggest something then run it by me like they're asking me for approval.
Been told i'm a sound guy by numerous people so, yeah, i rock.