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BillieTheBot
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Do you ever look at/think about exes and just cringe?
Or heave. Either or.
It's funny how one minute someones the best person in the world and the next it's like their the most hideous thing ever.
Or heave. Either or.
It's funny how one minute someones the best person in the world and the next it's like their the most hideous thing ever.
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Cringing is pretty much the only emotion I can associate with the majority of my exes. Fuck's sake, what was I thinking/drinking/taking!
All my other exes though are still really fit/cute in my eyes.
But at the same time, I'm lucky enough to look back on a couple of them and say "Ahh, good times" and I know a lot of people that can't, unfortunetly.
The best was discovering the other week that my friend from college had been to the same high school as one of the (worst one) exes. I pointed this out, and we were amazed to discover, it was her ex as well! Luckily she got rid of im before he tried anything with her like he did me, but it was odd I must admit!
That's really insightful.
I exactly don't look at him and cringe, but I'm not entirely sure what I saw in him. There's still some chemistry, so I obviously saw something in him, but he's entirely the opposite of my BF and I don't get it. I know he still has strong feelings for me, but I'd never go back there.
When he was nice he was really nice, but he forced me into things like sex and blowjobs, usually through verbal pressure, on regular occaisions, and I'm not up for that anymore. That aspect does make me cringe.
It reads as though you're being sarky
This is the same car that he came speeding down a very steep hill in two weeks ago, attempted going 90mph round a corner and flipped it into a field, leaving one of his "friends" with a broken pelvic bone, ribs and arm. The two other passengers both broke their wrist. He got away with nothing. So now he's rebuilding it to be faster. What an idiot.
And he's by no means the worst on my list either
I knew she wasn't so it can't be that bad. She's right too
Heh, it does actually! But I'm sure you know she's not being, so it's all good
Expect to be quoted on some fact sheet though
Is it just me or does thesite have a sheet for everything? Even the most obscure things?!
obscure things
and it was an insightful post Lipsy
I'm going to tell everyone I have ithyphallophobia and see how many believe me once they know what it means
Oh yeah, hi everyone! First post on TheSite! :thumb:
Me too with most, doesn't stop me cringing about some of them though. There's things I put up with from friends that I just don't have a clue why I would ever go near in a relationship.
Although the one long term relationship I have had after looking back on it I regret a lot of it. It was a bit pointless and for a bit part of it I think we were only together for the sake of it.