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and i'm not having a go before you start, but as far as the original topic is concerned, i think everything that needs to be said, has been said
You've used that reply before girly... Jesus. If you don't have a decent reply to post, don't!
I reckon this thread is dead.
FYI....he wants me bad!! LOL
What is MM and FYI?
ETA: For your information?
Why is this thread still going?
My man? I dunno either.
dd38ll, you're free to do whatever you like of course, but as has already been mentioned (by loopi I think) people are going to have their opinions on affairs and I think it's really hard for people to offer you support if they've seen the consequences of them or been at the brunt of them in the past. I guess people are just worried that things will all end in tears for you, and are trying to help you find a way out. However, the drive to do this needs to come for you, if or when you think it's the right thing to do.
I've pulled together some articles that you may find interesting reading:
Why they were unfaithful
Breaking up (this is a true story about getting out of a relationship that's past it's sell by date)
Relationship therapy
I hope this helps.