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Somethings wrong....
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My lil sister is seeing a guy. shes been with him a while and lost her virginity to him. But recently she has been bleeding during sex. Know i know this could be a sign of an s.t.i. I just found out the lad she is dating is shagging a girl who i wouldn't class as 'clean'. She wont listen to me, shes only 16 and this other girl and her bf are older than her and i am sooo worried!
What do you think i should do?:banghead:
thanks for advice in advance xx
What do you think i should do?:banghead:
thanks for advice in advance xx
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maybe take the approach of "im going, do u fancy coming aswell? for moral support?" instead of saying "get urself checked"
what did she say about the check?
sorry i didnt mean it to sound bitchy. she said that my mum told her it was nothing to worry about. god i've never felt angry, upset confused all at once like this
it didnt sound bitchy, its fine, i just wanted to double check with u wot i meant.
what did ur mum mean was nothing to worry about? if she meant having an STI is nothing - does she know your sister's bf is cheating on her? because im sure if she knew then she'd be worried.
do you know if he practices safe sex with your sister and this girl?
Maybe suggest that your sister visits a FPC or, a Brook centre (is it Brook - I'm sure a mod will know) to check up on this then, just so she knows. I'm sure the minute they find out they're not using protection, they'll suggest a STI check. They're alot less clinical than doctors, and more relaxed than a doctors surgery as well (well. Ours is.) so it might be a bit more comfortable for her than visiting her family GP - which might be what's a bit daunting for her.
well u sound v grown up+mature.....uve done all you can for the moment. if u mention more stuff to her, then she may rebell against you!
just be there for her when she needs you, because she will need you!