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lucifer devil wrote:
occasionally feelings of going for a shit.
im not keen coz it basically feels like im going to the loo over and over.
I can't speak for it properly as ive never had anall sex, but a little bit of play, for some reason, makes me tingle in that whole region, and gives me a stronger orgasm (male orgasm ).
Sometimes it's too strong and it almost hurts (but it's so good), do you know what I mean?
I still love missionary anal best to be honest - it's a very intense bizarre and sexy sensation.
pill 'ed wrote:
Hmm it just doesn't really appeal to me
lucifer devil wrote:
least you've tried it and can actually say you have.:)
The Bar Stud wrote:
Gays/ladies: what does it feel like?
hyper person wrote:
Anal without lube is painful-I like it cos its something a bit different and it adds something different to do together-makes me feel closer to the guy cos you need to have trust to do it I think.
Done it, love it... granted the shitting backwards feeling ain't too grand but you just get over it. Mind over matter etc. I think it totally depends on the chap as to how enjoyable it is. I have known some horrors, including the ones who think they can slip it in and you won't notice :shocking: On the other end of the scale, my current other half enjoys it so much that he is amazingly considerate and sexy about the whole thing, and so it's got to the point where i really enjoy it too. Good stuff.
There are hundreds of nerve endings around the anus, and that's why so many people like it and it's so enjoyable (still not easily described though). I personally like the area around my bum-hole (it seems wrong to say arsehole in this context) tickled, and rimming etc is just fantastic. Oo-er I'm feeling all flushed.
If you're actually looking for advice on it and have never done it before, best not to jump straight in. You have to warm yourself up so to speak, start with just using fingers and/or tongue action for a few sex sessions. I found that when starting out it's best attempted in the missionary position - it's easier to relax... and as anyone who's done it will know, relaxation is key.
You can progress after a few sessions of that to being in spoons and then from there, on your tummy, and then from there to hands and knees/over the table/end of bed. Don't jump straight into from behind, as that's when people get hurt and put off. Ouch.
I still love missionary anal best to be honest - it's a very intense bizarre and sexy sensation, especially if you introduce a vibe into the mix :thumb:
Oh yeah, almost forgot - lube lube lube lube lube LUBE!!! And importantly, anything that goes up your wrong'un shouldn't go anywhere near your muff (if you're a lassie) without a good wash in between!! That goes for tackle, dildos, fingers, toes and if it's a tongue then you need a nice anti-bacterial mouthwash. I recommend the purple Oral-B one
Bit limited is this... straight men often like anal play too, which is why women finger them up the arse during blowjobs .