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What would you do?
BillieTheBot
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If you were having sex with someone, and it was really bad, would you either tell them that it was bad and/or stop it, or carry on and pretend it was ok?
I think the reason i am getting like no sex at the moment is because i now have a (slightly true) reputation of telling blokes they are crap during sex, and not being very tactful about it. But what am i meant to do?! I can't carry on if it's boring. Puts me right off.
I think the reason i am getting like no sex at the moment is because i now have a (slightly true) reputation of telling blokes they are crap during sex, and not being very tactful about it. But what am i meant to do?! I can't carry on if it's boring. Puts me right off.
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Well duhh,
think you've answered your own question then ..
instead of criticising them why don't you just tell them how they could change what they are doing to make it better for you
Lol i wasn't asking myself a question. I'm quite happy doing what i'm doing!
I am not sure if that answers your question tho.
Bet it puts them off too
Errr..Depends, if I am seeing them and I like them than probably encourage them to do things I liked rather than destroy their ego completely.
hahaha That's funny!
Like someone else said though, Fake it and Run, Or suggest some new techniques, or carry on if it's not painful and finish yourself what they started
FUCK ME - a town/city cannot be large enough to hear/give a shit about the reputation of ONE single person (boy OR girl) - unless you're constantly hanging out with the same fuck-wits, which leads onto the fact no WONDER they won't fuck you!!
Being blunt - are you sure you're that good yourself?!
Either way - maybe you should try some new pick-up joints, m'dear. Unless you live in a small village, there is no way in hell that you should have such a rep!
Really though - everybody is different, and unless they're completely hopeless, a little guidance would go a lot further than abusing them for being shite (and if they ARE useless, a little guidance would go a LONG way. Perhaps then you'd get a decent lay and lighten up a bit!!
G.
" I have an erect wiener because there's a vagina in front of me. My body is compelling my to put my wiener in the vagina. I think I will do so. "
I must be missing something huge.
:yes: You are .... bad sex can be impersonal, quick, rough, clumsy etc. It's not simply a matter of slapping two bodies together and getting them to thrust uncoordinately.
Sex is like pizza...
Even if it's bad, it's still pretty O.K.
:yes:
You might find some useful tips here.
So if i was doing it with someone who wasnt doing things i liked i wouldnt tell him "your shit! go home" ...id either hint, show or tell (ha, show and tell) him how i would prefer it.
Well I think there ARE people who are bad at sex. It's those people who WON'T listen and still think with their own peculiar technique they are the hottest shit after Don Juan De Marco.
:yes: For example, Stubble on a mans face - :eek2:
Jeez, I gasped right there, when seeing the :eek2: face and something that looks very similar to my screen name on the first glance.
*phew*.
As long as that's all you thought at the first glance and not
*Strubbles on a mans face* That would be scary
If you faked it though, they'd think you've come so, Hopefully they would finish, then you could run. That way, you ain't making them feel bad for being bad, Leave someone else to teach them, Unless of course you really liked them then no it wouldn't do any good.
There's something you call blissful ignorance and there's something called ... not blissful ignorance. In this case, if I was the guy, I'd want to know. I wouldn't want to live with the illusion of being good when I suck. How would I know if the girl really got an orgasm, when around half the females have faked it (found some statistics, though unreliable - I feel very lazy). This isn't rocket science. If you aren't enjoying yourself, do yourself, and his future partners, a favour and help him out.
But, Why help them out, If you're not that bothered about them? Leave it for someone who cares. lol