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how long would you wait?
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If your dating someone how long would you wait until you slept with them?
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My sentiments are in ANY situation if you need to question it - you don't do it. If it feels right you are going to do it anyways, in your circumstance you don't do it right now since you're questioning it.
But with the lad I'm seeing just now I slept with him the first time we went out, it was good and unexpected and an inside joke between us. That and chicken pie.
Totally agree with 1983 :yes:
Slept with my current bloke on the second 'date'. With others I have had sex the first time and did not regret it but this time I wanted to wait. Really it is up to you and wht you feel comfortable with.
Nah, 1983 is bang on the mark. Whenever you're ready, innit :thumb:
Dont want to seem desperate.
Prude!
Haha... I wanted to post something similar.
"Well, If I know it would be possible, at LEAST until I finished my pint of beer."
That depends really. My first, i waited for about 3-4 months. My 2nd i waited a week, then my current i waited erm.. about 3 days. All, but the second were long term relationships though and all were safe sex.
eta: and until he's ready
sorry but that's kinda funny..:p
With my current bf we slept together before we officially started dating.
I sometimes want to on the first night, but then sometimes I'm not sure if she does and it's just doesn't quite feel right, y'know? Usually it's cool to wait a few weeks, because it's always nicer when you know a bit about the person and know what they're about aswell, always makes the after sex cuddle even better too.
Maybe that's just me though.
After sex banter with someone I met that night or known a while has never bothered me.
Ask them?
I'm not suggesting that you just say 'fancy a shag love?', you can do it more subtly than that, 'did you fancy coming over for dinner on Friday and then maybe staying the night?' for example.
I would try to wait as long as possible! But it depends on the situation. I think waiting makes it better though, more tension and build up.
and until the roofies in her drink start working.
j/k
:thumb:
Seriously whenever your ready. Never feel pressured