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are lads all the same???
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How is it that some lads can act so dumb especially mine..?
He proposed to me properly on new years eve/day and he refuses to make it public infront of his friends (male and female). He won't even buy me a proper ring.. He's 21 and if he made a commitment like that he should follow it through, so I think. He's great and we never leave each others side our families love us a lot and say they are happy with us being together(even though I'm 16 and he's 21)
what do you good, good people think??
He proposed to me properly on new years eve/day and he refuses to make it public infront of his friends (male and female). He won't even buy me a proper ring.. He's 21 and if he made a commitment like that he should follow it through, so I think. He's great and we never leave each others side our families love us a lot and say they are happy with us being together(even though I'm 16 and he's 21)
what do you good, good people think??
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I never said I loved you...
However I will fuck you...
until someone better comes along!!!!
I'm a good, good person and I don't think 5 years is much! Besides the mental age is probably the same cause women do mature much quicker than guys! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"> 5 years is nothing!
Your fiance may just be waiting for the right moment to tell everybody! I'm sure he will in a few days! Good luck and keep us posted <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
Don't take life seriously because you can't come out of it alive
i know people will most likely flame me for it.. but i think 16 is too young to be getting engaged and making a committment like that for the rest of your life! im only 18 myself, and i wouldnt consider getting engaged at this age. my friend got engaged at 17 when she was in a long term relationship, but they realised theyd made a mistake and shouldnt have got engaged at all. they broke up, and got back together again eventually for various reasons, but the engagement's off.
now there's no saying you wont be happy together for the rest of your lives, im just going by my friend's experiences. i thought i was happy with my own long term relationship.. well that lasted all of 16 months, hardly a lifetime! do you really want to never go out with anyone again apart from your fiance? what if you change too much for each other and dont want to be together? now i know these are only what if's, but some are more likely for getting engaged young. but in the end, its your decision and im sure you've thought about all these things yourself <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
have you talked to him to ask why he hasnt announced it? if you tell him it hurts you that you feel he doesnt want everyone to know, and tell him how you feel like he's shirking his committment and want to be able to discuss it in front of his and your friends. maybe he'll be able to see how you feel about the whole thing a bit better if you explain how it makes you feel.
sorry if i start a war on age and getting engaged! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif"> didnt mean to offend <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
U sed ur families r happy u bein 2gether, but do they know about the engagement? If they don't then maybe he is scared of their reaction.
Maybe he didn't tell his mates because he's scared he'll look soppy (why r guys like that?).
The more sand that escapes through the hourglass of time, the clearer we should be able to see through it.
dk
I never said I loved you...
However I will fuck you...
until someone better comes along!!!!
Ahhh...broken heart happens to be a guy (despite the name). Actually, his name just goes to prove the point that not all men are the same - broken is showing off his emotional side in his name.
Couldn't have put it any better myself <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
Don't take life seriously because you can't come out of it alive
I never said I loved you...
However I will fuck you...
until someone better comes along!!!!
the fact that he wants to keep the engagement quiet suggests to me that theres something not quite right going on there. i don't know though really i could be totally wrong and hes just shy or something!
but i would suggest that you sit him down and talk to him and make sure that everythings cool between you. just be honest with him and share the worries that you've got.
good luck <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made us to match the men.
Man, i loved Mr T! Nah, seriously, I am in the same suituation and it is hard telling people like your mates cos im only 16 and most of my mates, although realise I love my fiancee to bits, think its young love, think it wont last more than a few yrs etc etc. Give the guy some time...
Respect
My man doesn't act hard, but he says if he acts romantic I will take advantage of him. which i think is wrong
thankenu,
love baby xx