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Girlfriend Is Blanking Me!
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I've been seeing a girl for three years. She's got two kids. She's attractive, sexy, but....she has a temper endorsed by Satan! (Well, ok, not THAT bad) anyway, to cut a long story short....we've been arguing alot lately. She bollocks me about anything, and I attempt,pathetically, to defend myself. Usually ends up with me leaving the house to avoid abuse! SHe says she is frustrated I wont move in with her and settle down. My argument is " why would I want to settle down with the prince of darkness?!" (I'm sure, sometimes, I can see the Grim Reaper standing behind her, nodding, as she bollocks me!). Anyway, I have written a letter proclaiming undying love, lots of kisses and cuddles - but still the bollockings rain down on me! What should I do? Dump her? (I do love her, though and I know she loves me - but I don't think she likes herself much.)I've been on so many guilt trips lately, my passport is almost full!
Serious or comedy replies please - I need some light relief! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
Serious or comedy replies please - I need some light relief! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
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good luck
LIFE: Quite interesting in parts, but no substitute for the real thing
Maybe you should think about how you deal with it before, and what made you see past it and still love her. If you can't think of anything then you have a lot of serious considering to do. If you can - then bring up that kind of stuff when you talk to her about it.
Also -what is she on you about? Maybe there's a reason. Is there stuff that you're not doing that you should be maybe?
Just some suggestions <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
The more sand that escapes through the hourglass of time, the clearer we should be able to see through it.