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If she thinks that, she isn't worth your time.
Anyway, there's no set amount of time. You can spend no time whatsoever, or you can spend three days on the foreplay. It depends entirely on the mood. Some women absolutely love a man who takes time to explore her body and to make her feel incredibly horny before nookie. Others just want to get it over and done with. There's no definition of "normal", in this sense.
You'll be lucky!
45 minutes is a fairly long time, if she's giving you some in return and it's your first time, by the time it gets to sex you'll probably have blown your load by then!
That's the kind of attitude I like my men to have
But in seriousness, sex is all about give and take. I'm sure you'll get a tremendous amount purely out of pleasuring her, but I'm sure she will want to make you feel the same way. Once again, go with the flow, don't think "this is all about her"... focus on enjoying each other and each other's bodies and it will all come naturally. Honest
Oh quiet, you!
Don't get me wrong now, I think the OP's attitude to the whole thing is really very sweet. Especially since a fair few blokes seem to think the sight of them lying there naked with a boner is more than enough to make a gal spooge all over.
I honestly don't understand why anyone would not want to give it.
That's what her mouth's for. Or failing that, her tits.
I wouldn't be so sure!
No girl is NOT going to want it.
Maybe it'd be better waiting until you've got the rest down to a fine art, it might be running before you can walk otherwise. However if you're willing to ask her what she likes etc and be receptive to her wishes then there are really no limits to how much fun you can have :thumb:
Yup, get the wetsuit and the divers helmet on, shuffle down the bed, spread those legs and get explorin'.