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Can some girls just never have an orgasm?
I have tried everything to try and cum and nothing works.
I have tried everything to try and cum and nothing works.
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OP, do you masturbate?
how long have you been trying for? months years?
Interesting way of looking at things
I felt like how you did for ages...everything was nice but it never built up to anything. Then I tried going on top with my partner and it happened - up until then I had always done missionary and thought it was the only thing to do. So I dunno, when it happened I was really relaxed and I was turned on etc so I guess you could try different positions?!
Don't feel like you're alone, I'm exactly the same and I've practically given up :crying:
I can't say that surprises me... it must be easier to get something right if you've at least got something similar to practice on in the beginning...
Obviously there's a physical element - but reaching one is far more psychological imo.
You mention you already masturbate - but you might find this article from Net Doctor helps you to get the most out of it.
Good luck.