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Maybe not black though
But if you aint comfy in a Bikini then don't wear one. Is it the top or bottom you're more afraid to show off?
I also think the old fashioned suits are kinda cute these days, you'd certainly stand out
If you do decide to go for it then I can only advise to go the whole hog. There's nothing more depressing than seeing a woman scuttle from sunbed to poolside shrouded in a mahoosive towel - which she practically takes in for a swim with her - because she's so afraid of being seen. Also, take solace in the fact that bikini-wearing on holiday is the best place to do it. You'll be getting bronzed, in a great mood 'cause you're not at work, AND even if you do feel a little daft and self-conscious you're highly unlikely to see any of the locals or your fellow holiday-goers again (unless you want to - eg. hunky holiday paramour )
However, all said, you'll probably go on hols... wear your bikini and still cringe and feel awful when you get your photos back afterwards. I honestly think it's only 20 years down the line when you look back that you wish you'd been walking about butt nekkid because you can only dream about that figure you once had This is what my dear mother says everytime the photo albums come out, and bemoans having felt so awful about her (perfectly lovely) figure and missed so many opportunities to flaunt it because of that.
I aint got a clue but I typed in the word "bathing suit" to bring that up in Google .. it's well cute aint it :thumb:
It looks a bit like a babydoll lingerie, I'd go for a girl wearing one of those then a bikini any day.
http://www.alwaysforme.com
See all those years of watching Baywatch are finally paying off .. :thumb:
WOAH. Those last two are hideous and the first would be very unflattering to anything less than a model physique as it cuts right in on the much-loathed thigh/saddle bag area :no:
I think if you've got good tits and you're not horribly self-conscious about your belly then a bikini is better than a one piece anyway. They generally smoosh your breasts so any hourglassy, curvaceous figure you've been going for goes pear-shaped (literally). They also have a greater tendency to ride up your arse which is never a good look.
If you are self conscious about your body, a compromise is the tankini:
And the good thing about them is that you can always start to yoink the bottom of the vest up as you get more confident about showing off your belly
I agree about the first and the last, but I think the middle one is quite nice.
:yes: Or it can be.
Same with thongs. I've never found them anywhere near as attractive as french knickers.
You've got great taste!!!
I like the middle one as well, especially if you consider the side of the model, I think that would look more flattering on her then a Bikini or standard one piece.