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Asked a mate out
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Ok the otherday i asked a mate of mine out. She said that she would perfer to talk about it in person (was on MSN at the time lol) she txted me later on through the night say that i shouldnt worry about what i said and reminded me she didnt say no.
What would you say her answer might be?
I really hope she says yes but i have that feeling that it will be a no.
so i thought id ask on here and see what you girls think.
(shes gone away for a few days at the mo so dont get to see her at the mo so cant really talk to her till the end of the week.
What would you say her answer might be?
I really hope she says yes but i have that feeling that it will be a no.
so i thought id ask on here and see what you girls think.
(shes gone away for a few days at the mo so dont get to see her at the mo so cant really talk to her till the end of the week.
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Good luck with it!
Good luck though .
She told me she would rather talk in person about it so i spose thats a good sign too right?
You were mates before so if it was a yes then surely she would have just come straight out and said yes. With some girls they just like being chased, she may even have interest from other lads. Sorry to say it mate but I think you'll just have to wait it out.
Also, dont pin all your hopes on her because she may say yes then still be fucking you about along with other lads.
She might not be that type of girl at all but i've had a lot of experience with girls that like to be full of 'mystery' and will never be up front about anything.
But hey what do i know, good luck man.
Personally I'd expect to get the answer "No". That way, if she does say no you're not going to be disappointed, but if she says yes it'll be a great surprise! I think the text to say not to worry was probably to say don't feel bad, she's giving this careful consideration because she doesn't want to hurt you by turning you down straight away. Sorry, that's just my opinion and I'm sorry it's not more positive!
On the other hand I know a girl who was asked out by a friend who said no and then changed her mind a couple of weeks later. So who knows? Let us know what happens either way.
Well i spose i will find out when she gets back.
Thanks for the help
My friend got asked out over Facebook last week
I havent the faintest idea what that is and I'm glad.
Post of the week right here!