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I hate how shy I am, and that I can't stick up for myself. How easily I can be intimidated.
I messed things up with a guy, who went from totally loving me and talking to me every night, to pretty much ignoring me now. I can't help but feel its something about me.
Plus I'm always really tired, skint, I don't think I'm clever enough for the subjects I'm taking, and I have very low self-esteem. Hurrah.
It's great to have figured out how to be happy in my own skin. yesyes.
We are supposed to have a nice car, dress in a certain way, all of which costs money... Our society seems to have the idea that affluence is the be all and end all. But then is it possible to have a secular society that doesn't have some sort of ideology?
In essence, we're taught to think and act in a certain way and failure to do so doesn't make you unique, it makes you a freak (unless you have money or are attractive, then you're "eccentric").
I'm pretty okay with my personality, I think I'm quite a good person, but sometimes I wish I had more mates and stuff, but yeah, I have good friends, so it's all good.
Most people want to be a bit nicer, a bit prettier, a bit thinner, a bit more selfless, or SOMETHING, so I think I'm okay. I don't hate myself anymore.
I'm loving the way I look at the moment (okay a few pounds lighter would be ideal, but I'm not slitting my wrists over it!!) but in total I'm pretty satisfied with my appearance, in fact it could be a hell of a lot worse so I'm chuffed.
Mentally, I'm liking myself. I have friends, so I mustn't be the most hated person on earth. I'm respected, I'm looked up to, I'm disliked - nothing I'm upset about!
I'm at college, something I did for myself. I've acheived what I set out to so all in all, I'd marry me if it was legal. :thumb:
I hate the way I'm so shy around girls I really like unless I'm with people I know and even then I never have the fucking guts to actually ask them out.
I hate the way I've drifted apart from my family and I hate the fact that I let a drug addiction hurt people that I love.
I hate the fact that I messed up my first year at 6th form college which is why I had to change colleges which led to me drifting apart from people I care for.
I hate the way I'm too lazy to revise for anything and I hate how bad I am with managing my money.
I also hate the fact that I get so paranoid and I'm incredibly insecure.
I hate the fact that I just can't seem to get a girlfriend anymore.
Phew, glad I got all that off my chest!
If I'm ever satisfied, shoot me.
I like that! (not the shoot me bit )
I feel happy with my looks and my weight. I need to lose a few pounds but hey, if I'm happy with the way I am, why should I care about what guys think of me? I am who I am.
I feel quite popular because I have lots of friends at the minute and am never on my own.
I feel really independent. I don't feel the need for anyone and am completely happy being single.
Speak for Youself.
Oh He's only being like that because Your here.
Why don't You just shut up.
Why don't You....
My precioussss...