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How long does it take???
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Well with all the recent postings on the board about love and my recent experiences, it got me thinking, how long do you think it takes to fall in love??
I know it all depends on thne individual but people who have only been together a short time, eg me + my ex, others on the board who met up on holiday for 1 week, do you think that was real love?
Do you think you can fall in love in such a short space of time??
"I just want to feel safe in my own skin. I just want to be happy again." -Dido
I know it all depends on thne individual but people who have only been together a short time, eg me + my ex, others on the board who met up on holiday for 1 week, do you think that was real love?
Do you think you can fall in love in such a short space of time??
"I just want to feel safe in my own skin. I just want to be happy again." -Dido
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Like you said it does depend on the indivuduals, if you meet them on holiday they can be acting different to what they are like in normal day to day life, so you may be falling for someone who aint what they really are. But how long it takes, it took me a matter of days and we are still together 5 months on. all depends
Respect
i may be soft in your palm, but i'll soon grow hungry for a fight-and i will not let you win.
I know what it is for me, and I think it took about a dozen emails and 3 phone calls.
We've been together for the best part of a decade, and each year we've been more in love than the last.
i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made them to match the men.
Sorry, shouldn't be too sarky I guess. Love isn't one thing, so different people fall in love in different ways at different rates, not surprising really cos everyone's different, and every situation is different.
It's better to regret things you've done than things you haven't.