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following on from below..i now have his msn
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ok for those of u that have read 'how to approach him' below, the guy in questions msn ive just been given. do i add him to my account and talk 2 him (bit awkward explaining how i got his address..my mate guessed it...no im not joking!) or add him to another account and talk 2 him as someone else and get to know him that way?? suggestions asap please, thanks guys xx
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Erm, you mean deceive him before you even start lol?! Good way to strike up a relationship! Just add him on your own account, and be yourself (Except don't come on to strong straight away). If I was him I'd probably be pleased...
you'd be much better off talking to him at the football match
maybe but i dont strictly 'not know' him. true ive never spoken to him but i know his parents quite well and we see each other almost every week so he certainly knows of me. so im not a 'crazed fan' as such
the team must have drinks together at the bar afterwards? that would be the best place to go over and say "well played today" or something then get talking
say u saw him on the msn user directory n wondered if he fancies a chat
im quite a confident guy but i would feel much more nervous about adding a random person on msn than just saying hi at a bar.
im basing my opinion on 2 past experiences, so thats just my view, would be interesting to see what others think aswell
just ask him!!!!
Go for it, like someone said above, say you saw him on the directory
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I know you say that you are too shy but I seriously think this is a better way to go. My guess is that even if you started talking to him on msn you are still going to be too shy to go over to him in person, I think you should just say hi or smile in passing and see how it goes from there. You dont have to have a really long conversation with him or anything just build on it each time you see him.
have you tried vinyl.vicky@iwantbunglenutter.com:lol: