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Hardest-to-find mates. What do you reckon they are?Lovers,best,soul.I know my choice.
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I really want to start a topic about soul mates.What are your deinitions and have you got one or more?
My definition is someone who you feel at ease with totally to open up to and to just cry and moan to. You trust them more than anything or one else and feel only they can help you.
I personally dont have one. I am generally a person who finds it hard to open up so I probably will find it hard to find a soul mate.What do you think?
If you do have soul mates you are lucky. Soul mates are so important and it is so meaning ful to have such a lovely connection with someone. I would like to think it is my boyfriend or my closest friend but it aint. I still find it hard. I always keep my problems bottled up.
Do you reckon you, yourself are a soul mate to anyone. I do. My boyfriend reckons I am his soul mate and my close friends are so open to me. Whay do they find it so easy????
My definition is someone who you feel at ease with totally to open up to and to just cry and moan to. You trust them more than anything or one else and feel only they can help you.
I personally dont have one. I am generally a person who finds it hard to open up so I probably will find it hard to find a soul mate.What do you think?
If you do have soul mates you are lucky. Soul mates are so important and it is so meaning ful to have such a lovely connection with someone. I would like to think it is my boyfriend or my closest friend but it aint. I still find it hard. I always keep my problems bottled up.
Do you reckon you, yourself are a soul mate to anyone. I do. My boyfriend reckons I am his soul mate and my close friends are so open to me. Whay do they find it so easy????
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my friends are usually shit to me. my "real life" friends this is btw. im always getting dumped on, taken advantage of, neglected, rejected, left out, ostracised, hated, that kinda thing. not just once, its happened with all the friends i've ever really had. and now the only person who really gives a shit about my from my school i just left is moving at the end of july, and so my time before uni, and the holidays, are doomed to be boring and lonely as shit. the people in my life dont know me that well, they dont know how i think, what i hate, what i like, nothing about who i really am.
my friends on the internet, well they're better to me than people in "real life" ever have been. they're there for me when i need them, they say things to make me feel loved and cared about, they talk about nonsense with me sometimes, they cheer me up, everything friends should do. and im the best friend of 3 people, 2 of whom ive not yet met but probably will before the year is out.
my first boyfriend and i were best friends, that was the core of our relationship, we were friends for months before we went out. he was the one i told everything to, who was always there for me. and he was in my life for 2 years almost. ive only got one person in my life who's been there longer than that, and who's been important to me the whole time ive known him too. i know we have a special bond, and that nothing or no one will get in the way, we will always be the most important thing to each other. and i know how special that is.
I love deadlines. I love the whooshing noise they make as they go by.
~ the late, great Douglas Adams
This is the first day of the rest of your life.
Awww .. I'm not even a friend ?? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"> hehe
Yup, well i know all about the trials and tribulations of people on the net.
But there's a distinction between friends they have online, and the friends they have in real life .... although online m8s tend to be more like themselves in real life rather than the nasty, spiteful, hurtful mates that live near them it's just that sorta 'will i ever meet them' thing that hangs over it .. one of the drawbacks of the net i guess !! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif">
Another pointless rant by me <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
Bored? Then why not visit www.alza.co.uk :+)
[This message has been edited by Powerslave (edited 29-05-2001).]
best mates...not gonna say <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"> but i like to think some of them visit here sometimes.
and, of course, calvin is my lover (y o y o did i have to to trivialise this thread!! ffs!)
Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
having calvin as a lover is soooooo not trivial.
even though i beg to differ, he's a one-woman kinda guy, which means youre out of the picture.
and yes you did sound like a fookin dog!!!
no dear, that was the dog outside ur window. u fool <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
"When asked, 'What is a friend?' he replied, 'One soul inhabiting two bodies'."
(And a prize for anyone who knows who said it, too...)
ya mean going out and gettin wankered?
Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
Prrrrrrreeeeeeeecisely! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"> lol
this is what having a soulmate is all about CHEEK-y. someone to bite turtle's head off when he's being cheeky. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
i've been very lucky to find mine in susie. we just get along. we miss each other when we don't talk for long periods, and all the bad things in the world just go away when we talk. all u long for a is a big hug and being able to fall asleep with her on the couch. and forever doesn't seem like enough time to spend together. that's my definition of soul mate. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
and for the record... i wouldn't touch turtle's shell with a ten foot pole. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">
I love deadlines. I love the whooshing noise they make as they go by.
~ the late, great Douglas Adams
here's hoping u land urs <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
I love deadlines. I love the whooshing noise they make as they go by.
~ the late, great Douglas Adams
I know I'm not perfect but I can smile
But what about general best mates?
People say friends are more important than lovers.Its different in a marriage thing-they should be equal then in a different way of course.
and the other person i was talking about who id probably meet before the end of the year, isnt a lover and isnt likely to become one either!
kitty i so know what you mean, you dont even have to explain things in words, they just know. *sigh*
ill go and write stuff in my livejournal soon about this now ive figured out who to choose specifically to see stuff <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
I love deadlines. I love the whooshing noise they make as they go by.
~ the late, great Douglas Adams
friends are more important then lovers and my best friend is the most important person in my life and i'm very sure she always wil be. and i take her forgranted sometimes just like she does me but i can't think of anyone being more important to me then her.
I know I'm not perfect but I can smile
- if you love someone, put their name inside a circle, not a heart; hearts can break, circles are never-ending.
- if my soulmate were to jump off a bridge, I wouldn't jump with him/her, I'd be at the bottom to catch him/her.
- it takes an hour to like someone, a month to love someone, and a lifetime to forget someone.
<IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
This is the first day of the rest of your life.
You've made my heart melt especially with the cirle-heart business and the first one-thats a great thought.
I cant get over it!!!!!
They are great thoughts.
I love deadlines. I love the whooshing noise they make as they go by.
~ the late, great Douglas Adams
CALVIN we americans know our shit! I have this friend about 250 miles away and we used to talk fro hours at least 4/7 times a wekk, now i hardly even get an email from him, i miss him so much! hes my bud but i love him!
HEY CALVIN, I DONT KNOW SUSIE BUT YOU 2 SEEM PERFECT! AND AS FOR TURTLE YOU SUCK ASS <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"> DUDE - LEARN TO BE A LIL SENSATIVE OR DONT WRITE ON SOMETHING THAT IS! PEOPLE LIKE CALVING AND SUSIE AND I RULE THIS PAGE! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/cool.gif">
AS FOR YOU CHEEKy, SOUL MATES ARE FRIEDNS WHO MAKE PROMISES TO BE FRIENDS FOR EVER AND KEEP THAT PROMISE.
[This message has been edited by LIN (edited 08-06-2001).]
susie and i appreciate the sentiments you've posted.
but turtle is also right. he and i are always messing with each other cause we're just having fun. he's really a decent guy and a respected member of thesite. i can understand why you or other new people would think he's mean or in sensitive, but he's not. take the time to get to know him personally before you make a judgement like that.
and he's reasonable too. if you think he's crossed the line... tell him personally instead of posting it.. he's been known to apologize and scale things back.
and if he really bothers you, just skip his posts and keep giving the good advice you've been giving lin. cause i'd like to see you be a respected member around here too.
shellhead --
i know ur were mad at the remarks lin made, but i think u went a little overboard and took things a bit personal. it's up to you, but i think you might want to apologise cause some of it was pretty harsh.
and just so you know, i like messing with ya. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"> and apparently you have a fan club around here now, so i think u know where u stand around here. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
guys -- can we shake and make up? please?
There's a girl in my mirror
I wonder who she is
Sometimes I think I know her
Sometimes I really wish I did
have done, well, sorta <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"> as usual, ur level head prevails.
Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.