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I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year. We've been really close but in january he went abroad. Some really crappy stuff happened to him, so he had to come back.
Coz of all the stuff that happened to him he really changed and so, in my eyes, did our relationship.
Last month he went back abroad and he's going for 3 months, but the problem is that
a) my feelings for him have changed
b) I fancy someone I work with
I suggested to my boyf that we go on a break and start afresh when he comes back, but he got really upset, and so did I and changd my mind so we're still together.
Basically, what do I do? <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> I don't feel as much for him as I used to and in a way I smeimes think he's having too much fun to remember me, and I want to shag someone I work with.
Help....advice please!
Thank you
xxx
Coz of all the stuff that happened to him he really changed and so, in my eyes, did our relationship.
Last month he went back abroad and he's going for 3 months, but the problem is that
a) my feelings for him have changed
b) I fancy someone I work with
I suggested to my boyf that we go on a break and start afresh when he comes back, but he got really upset, and so did I and changd my mind so we're still together.
Basically, what do I do? <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> I don't feel as much for him as I used to and in a way I smeimes think he's having too much fun to remember me, and I want to shag someone I work with.
Help....advice please!
Thank you
xxx
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Any broader definition of crappy stuff?
Its hard to work out what I really feel for my boyf coz he's so far away and I haven't spoken to him in weeks, we just email each other. I did try to break it up and start again when he gets back but I can't upset him like that, he thinx nothing's changed between us.
I don't wanna break up with him and find I've made a mistake but I don't wanna stay with him and end up breaking up as soon as he gets back
Crappy stuff=he got mugged of all of his possessions.
oooo and did I mention the guy I work with has a girlfriend?
what a tangled web we weave. I'm a soap opera.
yeah the one at work does come on 2 me...all the time!! he's very persistant.
this is gonna make me seem like such a shallow bitch, but to be truly honest I can't stand men with long hair and my boyfriend has been growing his....and its gonna be even longer by the time he gets back. it really doesn't suit him and he, erm, hasn't quite got the hang of shampooing regularly yet.
despite the hair tho, I don't wanna make rash decisions...its just hard to keep saying no the one at work...he knows I like him.