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1 year today
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Its a year today since my dad died and i feel so bad i don't think i can make it through the day. I've just rang my mum because i was upset and she hadn't even remembered. It feels like my dads memory has died with him and no-one remembers but me.
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Try not to think about what happened a year ago today, instead think about what happened in the months and years before his death, and all the fun things you did together.
Hope you feel better soon
Bump to this. I dont like talking about loved ones who have passed away, and I tend to blank things out like dates of death.
Yesterday was so hard for me. Today feels hardly any better. I feel like im back to square 1. I hate feeling like this and just feel that if im not here, i wont feel like this anymore, and il be with my dad.
Its his birthday next month, and i don't think i'l be able to cope with it. :crying:
You have to honey ... he wouldn't want you to be all cut up about him and having it make you miserable. Instead of just mouring the loss of him, try and be positive and smile about all the times he made you happy. That is a far more fitting tribute. *hugs*
i`m the same, my mum sits there cryin, but to me, its just another day without him, doesnt feel any different, that doesnt mean i dont care or remember tho
chin up x
just remember that your dad would not have wanted your life to be miserable, so try and take care of yourself and remember the good times. x