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just a quick question, about finding love
i have been reading up on this!
some advice says if you want to date, you have to initiate
some says that girls should never make the first move or even smile at a guy she likes, but that he should chase her....
girls, if you have any experience of what works best, let me know!
i have been reading up on this!
some advice says if you want to date, you have to initiate
some says that girls should never make the first move or even smile at a guy she likes, but that he should chase her....
girls, if you have any experience of what works best, let me know!
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if theres a lad that you like, do what you feel is neccesery to get his attention, you dont have to make a move straight away
Say hi
Anyone who believes that the man must do all the wooing and chasing for the relationship to work is an idiot, or twelve, or both.
Not in this day and age.
Girls should chase guys, Guys should chase girls. If you like someone don't leave it until it's to late to do anything about it. Unfortunetly in this world thing's don't just come to you, you've got to go out their and chase them. So if you like someone, go get them !
Don't be shy about it either.
James
Don't stick to rules, go with the flow and how the mood is feeling!
good luck with staying single! Don't believe every shit the cosmopolitan is shoving down your throat.
Hmm - sounds a bit one-sided to me, where's the fun in that?
You may find this article on asking someone out helpful - and yes it is relevant to lads and lasses.
And as Luke said above, drinking is a good way, but if you're anything like me, if I get too drunk, I'll either moan slightly and seem a twat or chat too much and not let the other person get a word in...so it is a bit of a double edged sword of making yourself either more or less desirable.
watch out boys, here i come!!!!!!