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I just told a boy on msn that I've liked him for a while. So proud! I was crapping myself but thought 'fook it'. Plus even if he didn't like me back I knew we'd still be good friends...But...He likes me back! He kept a badge I gave him ages ago too. fabarooney
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Awww thats great!
you know what kind of messages I get from girls? "I liked you way back then... you were a idiot for not asking me out."
'fook it', to put it in your words.
I wish more girls were assertive like you.
I give you a Strubb's thumb up, and that's the highest award on the internet out there.
Thankyou!! Plus I've never done anything like that before :nervous:
Edit: I think the real decider was chatting on webcam last night and he stuck some bluetack up his nose to cheer me up. Awh
Aww I love happy threads like this...
You weren't worried at all that it might mess things up? I always worry about that possibility.
Go you, anyway, great result!
But yayy well done babe! And best of luck with the continuing it
Yup of course I was. But if we were as good friends as I supposed then he wouldn't hate me for telling him if he didn't feel the same way.
Thanks
Yep thats precisly it. IF you're such good friends, neither would hate the other despite revealing such deeper feelings.
Well done to you though Rachael :thumb:
That is awesome. More girls should do stuff like that. This is the 21st century - why should the boys always make the move?!
It definately pays off--just realised this myself, when I had to find the courage to ask a girl out in a seemingly impossible situation. The rush I get from being with her is incredible!
I usually reflect what would happen if I'd never taken the initiative. Seize the day! Take the great leap! How love can take away any sorrow... is just amazing.
:chin: Or people just did it on the phone - that's what I did before the internet - or wrote letters.
Nice one rach :thumb:
What makes you think that it's always men that make the moves?
hope you 2 are happy together.
experience.
to me and through observation.
Just talking through my own experience. It's the way i've always known it with me and everybody else I know. If you've done different, then great. No offence meant.