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virginity + blood (girls only)
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Ok so is it normal to bleed a LOT after having sex for the first time? I slept with my bf last night and today I'm bleeding v.heavily, as if it was a really heavy period. Is this natural to happen hours after having sex? Any advice appreciated.
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is there any slim coincidental chance that youve just come on your period? it could happen.
see your doc in any case incase theres something really wrong.
I'm sure it will soon stop, unless you are due on your period now or something.
Useless advice i know, sorry.
my first time, i didnt bleed at all, so i wouldnt think you would have that much blood afterwards.
if it carries on, or you feel very very sore inside, id go and get yourself checked out.
and are you sure it's not your period?
i was in a lot of pain aswell
If it is close to your period then it may have came early especially if it is very heavy, i don't think losing your virginity can cause that much blood.
I'm sure you should be able to tell the difference anyway, if it's blood from losing it then it would probably be like when you cut yourself whereas period blood, without being graphic it can someties be thicker at times if you know what i mean.
Well periods vary so maybe it's just this month that is different, never know. I'm sure it is nothing to worry about anyway, sex is a natural thing and if you took it slowly then i'm sure no damage as bad as to make you bleed heavily could have been caused.
It most likely just is a heavy period.
Just to try and reassure you somewhat - this happened to me. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend, and started to bleed really heavily a while after I'd got home, and it turned out to be my period a few days earlier than expected. I didn't bleed whilst we had sex or straight away after, but it came on just like yours did.
If you're unsure then of course see the nurse, just to be safe.
Hope everything works out ok and take care
Love cavey
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