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Relationship Conundrum...
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Someone help me please, im going insane. Basically my problem is this:
Ive got a really good mate - who's a girl. We get on really well and talk everyday, but the problem is.... ive fallen for her. I really love her and would like to have something with her, but the real thing is im afraid ive missed my chance. She was "available" a while back and I was thinking of going for it, but i didn't want to ruin what we had already. Now she has a [horrible] boyfriend who shes been seeing for 6 months. Shes the most amazing girl - intelligent, funny not to mention unbelievably beautiul... what should I do?
Ive got a really good mate - who's a girl. We get on really well and talk everyday, but the problem is.... ive fallen for her. I really love her and would like to have something with her, but the real thing is im afraid ive missed my chance. She was "available" a while back and I was thinking of going for it, but i didn't want to ruin what we had already. Now she has a [horrible] boyfriend who shes been seeing for 6 months. Shes the most amazing girl - intelligent, funny not to mention unbelievably beautiul... what should I do?
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Iv been their myself and i know its hard. Does she have any idea how you feel at all? How much does she like this guy - is it serious? Thing is - you could tell her how you feel but then if she still stays with this guy it could just ruin the great friendship which you already have. Maybe you could just drop subtle hints and see if she picks up on them. I wish you luck! Lucyxxx <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
Im not sure about the other guy, hes 2 years older than her and could be classed as a
I think lurvkylucy gave the best advice. Just give her hints that you like her more than just a friend and she may eventually finish with this guy and tell you she wants you more!
The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched - they must be felt with the heart.
If it was me Id just jump in at the deep end and tell her, no farting about, if she doesnt want to pursue a relationshiip with you tell her you are fine about it and that you wanna still be friends but needed to get it off your chest. You will just feel really sshit if you bottle it up.
So you all think I should go for it... Any ideas on what to say?
"Hey, i like your... face...." is just about the limit of my 'subtle hints' but for this occasion I could use some help from the ladies. What should I say to her to give her the impression i like her 'in that way'?