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I cant speak for the entire female population, but we're not all shallow.
Everyone has insecurities and she probably had a fair few of her own to say something like that to you.
Ignore it, meet new girls, build the confidence up and you'll be fine.
I'm sure your penis isn't ugly or whatever, and just think, there are plenty guys out there who are much worse off and still have a good sex life.
:yes: i say its not what youve got its what you do with it :thumb:
and this girl just seems like a bitch and ignore what she says!
When I was 19, my ex used to physically kick my ass and called me a pathetic little shit (this was when we were going out by the way, what a catch), and I'd be lying if I said it didn't still make me a bit more wary and maybe a bit less forthcoming with affection and shit.
End of the day, you're so unlikely to ever go out with anyone as nasty as that girl again, so you're as well taking a deep breath and moving on.
I know it aint as easy as that though.
Had a great night out which really helped, and she apologised this morning, said she didnt mean it and she just wanted to hurt me.