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Dodgy friend?
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I found out yesterday night that a good mate of mine has tried to get off with my girlfriend twice recently when I wasn't around. Apparently she told him to get lost, but she never mentioned it to me. Another friend told me about it, and I don't think he's the sort of person to make things like that up.
Why didn't she tell me herself? And what should I do about my so-called good mate? I feel like shit and I want to smack him one, but I guess that's not going to help much.
Why didn't she tell me herself? And what should I do about my so-called good mate? I feel like shit and I want to smack him one, but I guess that's not going to help much.
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if your sure ur girlf told him where to go then why dont you just ask her - see what she says?
You cant just go and punch him! Think about it!! Lucyxxx
But the best thing u can do is to talk to them both...and together is better than seperatly as its easier to tell lies when u aint around the other person <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
Ed
I would say that I totally agree with that <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">!
The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched - they must be felt with the heart.
Oh and I work on freelance projects for websites - and he's told a few important people that I'm a really dodgy character and can't be trusted. What is wrong with this bloke? I can't understand what makes someone like that tick. I was a good friend to him and we never fell out over anything.
One good thing is that it has brought me and my girlfriend even closer together.
Sounds more like he's the one having a pyschotic episode. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
Have you managed to talk to him yet? It sounds bloody confusing if he used to be a good mate, and whatever else happens talking to him might help you work out what he's trying to do.
You never know, maybe someone's told him a pack of lies about you that have really pissed him off (something stupid like you hit on his sister etc.) and so he's trying to take revenge. Doubtful though... good luck.
I think you should try and get him admitted into a physcho home.
Oh and get some1 else to punch his lights out coz if you do it hes just gonna say to every1 I told you he was a physcho. You never know it might all be part of some master plan the sickos thought of so he can steal your girlfriend.
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