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random girl / flowers questions
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Is one of the main reasons you girls like getting flowers is to make other girls jealous from the attention your getting, be honest, do you rub their nose's in it?
Lets pretend your at work girls and you get flowers from someone (the message doesn't have name/or give away who sent it) Would you be happy, freaked out or not bothered?
If you had an idea who sent them would you confront bloke(s) openly/publicly, behind closed doors or not even bother with it?
Lastly...do flowers = kiss or bit of the old stuff
Lets pretend your at work girls and you get flowers from someone (the message doesn't have name/or give away who sent it) Would you be happy, freaked out or not bothered?
If you had an idea who sent them would you confront bloke(s) openly/publicly, behind closed doors or not even bother with it?
Lastly...do flowers = kiss or bit of the old stuff
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I Don't rub peoples noses in it, but i like to show them off
I'd be happy if i got 'em at work
I'd ask out in the open or wherever really
Flowers - just a kiss
no girl has ever got me flowers
i think a girl just likes to feel special, and if you go to the trouble of getting her favourite flowers and making them look all nice for her then... it can be nice.
far too commercialised these days though, find something original yet still romantic i think. maybe flowers too. in my limited experience girls take everythin u give them lol. unless they dont like you and they take it but say 'errr thaniks..'
Personally, I'd like to know who sent them, within a couple of days, say. I'd rather he made the move to confirm it was him - I don't think I'd confront him face to face, would maybe do it by txt msg (modern girl, me!).
And, yes, I'd feel smug about receiving flowers in front of my colleagues. I did on my 21st... even if they were from my parents!
If it was anonymous, I'd ignore it, and think that the mystery person should have spent a wee bit more time finding out about me, and then he's know I think flowers are a rubbish gesture.
Chocolates, however, I could work with :thumb:
See this is what interest me - blokes assume flowers are safe bet (or maybe just me!)
Hello TheShyBoyInTheCorner, yes I decided to take night out of my busy life and come see whats going on here.
I've been sent anonymous flowers before at Uni; but it was in halls rather than at work or anything like that. I thought it was really sweet, but it did make me rather suspicious of pretty much everyone until I found out who had sent 'em
Only if theyre from the right person, and they're nice flowers. :flirt:
Same here
If it's her birthday or something (or if you're in the bad books for staying at the pub too long) then maybe give them to her when she's at home, but sending them to her work is a bit silly.
You can't be nice. That's not a good idea.
I likie getting flowers and showing everyone too.
This Valentines day, this bloke from work sent me some roses, which was kinda nice, except I was in hospital the night before and therefore wasnt in work, cue the flurry of texts like "OMG JOHNS BOUGHT U ROSES?!11!?!!1'
So I had to face everyone the next day, and I was made out to be the bad guy because I wasnt interested. I think they thought flowers DID equal a bit of bish bash bosh :yuck: