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I dont wanna think about her right now!
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I fill my brain up with Dany, and drink away the pain
mobb deep - the infamous (1994) - drink away the pain.
no, seriously. be busy busy busy, meet friends, go biking, lifting weighs, painting a picture with the instructions of bob ross, cook a rad meal, but don't sit in front of the fucking computer, where your mind is unoccupied all the time.
ive decided to keep busy and go out and do exactly what the fuck i like, when i like.
I'm not trying to belittle your problem, because I know it feels like shit, but try and think about it in perspective. Yeah, she was a nice girl, nice personality, good looking, whatever adjectives you'd like to add here, but that's all she was. I remember feeling "this is one of the only girls I've ever felt this way about, so it must be quite rare to find someone so 'perfect' for me". But I realised that the reason for this wasn't that there are so few girls out there I'm compatible with, it was just that I hadn't put any effort into, or had the confidence, to go out and meet any of them. Sound familiar?
By any chance was this a girl you were forced to spend time with every day/week (i.e. work or education)? Did you fancy her after a short while, not do anything about it, then continue to think about her every time you saw her from then on? By then was there too much pressure involved in asking her out?
So get on with your life and wait for someone else to come along that you're interested in. And if you go out there and socialise as often as possible, you'll meet another one far quicker. But this time, be decisive, be confident, show her you're interested, and ask her out. If she says no, you won't waste time thinking about what could be, because you'll know it won't happen. If you never ask, you'll always wonder, and you'll end up in the same situation again.
I know this wasn't a direct answer to your question, but I hope you found it useful.
Seriously, get out of the house and do something... anything. Not right at this second but first thing tomorrow. Sitting at the computer is only going to make you dwell.
well I have got school tomorrow!
Well work hard, pay attention in your lessons, make plans for after school with mates, sort something out for the weekend that will take you out of your usual "down time" environment.
Don't really have any mates to hang out with per say because most of em have gone to uni.
thinking either excell acedemically or get a job or both.
Scientific fact.
trouble is they are real fucking hard to get
but some jobs at night £7 an hour....
And if you're out there chatting to other girls that you like, there's not much chance that you'll fall for this one that has a boyfriend already, because you won't be thinking about her 24/7. If you carry on flirting with her, and only her, then you'll be thinking about her all the time, and become bitter that you can't have her, and end up in the same situation.
Serously. Getting out there and socialising with new people solves practically every fucking problem in the world. Of course it's easier said than done if you're not a natural.
this one doesn't have a boyfriend