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just some questions about Bisexual relationships

BillieTheBotBillieTheBot Posts: 8,721 Bot
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Just was doing some thinking and am kinda bored.
Note:this thread isn't to piss off anybody and if it does I apologise.
no need repost the bi myths thing cause I read it.
just want some peoples opinions is all

Im only gonna post 1 question at a time.

1. If in a relationship with a Bi partner are they allowed to explore thier sexuality?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm not bi, but I would imagine it would depend on the people involved and how they feel. But I suppose there is the added aspect of your partner not being able to give you everything you want. But as a general question, I think it's the same as asking whether open relationships are acceptable among straight or gay people - it depends on the people involved.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If I was with someone who was bi then I wouldn't want them to shag somebody else any more than I would if I was with someone who was straight, if that's what you mean.

    I wouldn't care if she wanted to watch lesbian porn or whatever though.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Bri-namite wrote:
    I wouldn't care if she wanted to watch lesbian porn or whatever though.
    Or suggested you 'share' her other alternative sexuality? ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Do you mean, if your in a relationship with a girl, and she likes other girls, if its acceptable to do other girls whilst with you? Imo, it depends on the relationship. If its an open relationship, fine. If its not, how is it any different than cheating? Just because its the same sex doesn't make it any different.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm With Stupid wrote:
    Or suggested you 'share' her other alternative sexuality? ;)

    S'pose it's only polite to be accommodating to her friends, innit? :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    good points so far.

    next question

    2. wouldn't it be hard for a bi person to be in a relationship because sooner or later they may want to be with a member of the same/different sex.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    no to both questions.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    so there not allowed to explore their sexual urges and it isnt hard for them to cope? I see what you mean.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I should imagine it would be about as hard as it is to cope for a straight person not to go out and shag somebody else as it is a bi person. Gay person too for that matter.

    Bi people are no different than straight or gay people.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    johnnyboy503 wrote:
    so there not allowed to explore their sexual urges and it isnt hard for them to cope? I see what you mean.
    no more than a heterosexual person needs to explore their sexual urges with other people of the opposite sex.
    Do you think bisexual people have trouble with monogamy then?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    johnnyboy503 wrote:
    good points so far.

    next question

    2. wouldn't it be hard for a bi person to be in a relationship because sooner or later they may want to be with a member of the same/different sex.

    I guess that's not much different to a straight person being in a relationship - sooner of later they may want to be with someone else.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my_name wrote:
    I should imagine it would be about as hard as it is to cope for a straight person not to go out and shag somebody else as it is a bi person. Gay person too for that matter.
    But then I suppose in a straight relationship, you are generally fulfilling all of your sexual urges, whereas a bi person would only be fulfilling half of them? I think that's what he's getting at.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    good point.

    I knew someone who went out with a Bi girl (I didn't know she was Bi at the time) apparently she was seeing a girl or fell for another girl. She was either cheating on him or binned him. I felt bad for him because being dumped by a chick for a chick has to hurt your confidence.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No and no unless agreed
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    SuzyCreamcheese wrote:
    no more than a heterosexual person needs to explore their sexual urges with other people of the opposite sex.
    Do you think bisexual people have trouble with monogamy then?

    no no its just whats the likelyhood they'll stray is all.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    johnnyboy503 wrote:
    no no its just whats the likelyhood they'll stray is all.

    I should assume it depends on the individual and their morals, not their sexuality.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm With Stupid wrote:
    But then I suppose in a straight relationship, you are generally fulfilling all of your sexual urges, whereas a bi person would only be fulfilling half of them?

    Yeah, and I reckon it's different sexual urges from a married bloke who's wife wont let him up you know where for the rest of his life (although you'd hope he'd stop trying after they hit 60 or so)

    It's hard to explain though, I think you get different emotional needs from men and women too, so I'd guess it's the whole package.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thats basically all I wanted to know.
    except this one thing

    Should you or is it right to cop out on a girl whos Bi if you really like her?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    johnnyboy503 wrote:
    no no its just whats the likelyhood they'll stray is all.

    So you think that because someone is bi, then they're more likely to cheat?:rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    theres no need for sarcasm.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    johnnyboy503 wrote:
    Should you or is it right to cop out on a girl whos Bi if you really like her?
    If you really like a girl, you should make an effort to get to know her. And you certainly shouldn't judge her likelyhood of cheating on you based on the fact that she's bi.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What does "cop out" mean?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well guys you know me by now, I got issues..

    thats pretty much it. Cant think of anything else to add.

    cheers for the replies.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    johnnyboy503 wrote:
    Should you or is it right to cop out on a girl whos Bi if you really like her?

    Not just because she's bi, no.

    Well it is if you can't cope with it, although that's really your problem more than anyone elses.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my_name wrote:
    What does "cop out" mean?
    "Not bother with." Unless it's one of these new-fangled words the kool kids are using nowadays and means something else.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my_name wrote:
    What does "cop out" mean?

    to basically quit on someone.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm With Stupid wrote:
    If you really like a girl, you should make an effort to get to know her. And you certainly shouldn't judge her likelyhood of cheating on you based on the fact that she's bi.

    :yes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hm
    I wish you guys were here last november
    or I was on the boards back then.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Are you sure she's bi? She might just be emo. :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Mind me asking why you said that?
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