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I am just reading in another forum, that A LOT of girls fancy some little spanking while intercourse. I wasn't aware of that. How many of you guy agree on here?
Moreover did I read that more girls want accoustic feedback from her male companions, is that an issue you have thought about as well?
Actually, the thread in that forum is about fav sexual positions, so what is yours?
I go with the good old missionary + missionary with her legs on my shoulders
and cowgirl.
Moreover did I read that more girls want accoustic feedback from her male companions, is that an issue you have thought about as well?
Actually, the thread in that forum is about fav sexual positions, so what is yours?
I go with the good old missionary + missionary with her legs on my shoulders
and cowgirl.
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nope, not really. i dont go for pain in general... well maybe a little biting
well yea, its good if he makes some noise to let me know that he's enjoying himself (is that what you meant?) In the past i was with someone who made pretty much no noise at all, not even when he came and that was a bit weird.
Ninja orgasms. Good if your walls are thin like paper (and you have flatties)
I shall remember that one.
my very recent ex didnt make any noise either - was really wierd and kinda not as good expecially since i was used to my ex making extremely loud noises when he came.
In answer to the question - some very light spanking would be nice, not too hard though lol....and yes i like guys to make noise......and i dunno if ur asking girls their fav positions but mine is cowgirl - and my ex loved that as i have very long hair it used to tickle his chest lol
I don't mind a bit of spanking. A lot of blokes definitely seem to like doing a bit of arse-slapping while getting jiggy, that's all good unless they're so forceful it leaves handprints. I once had a boyfriend whose biggest turn-on was me slapping my own arse (and the rest) which was vaguely amusing for a while, but then I sort of deduced that all the porn he watched had ruined any potential to grow into our own sexual relationship.
My favourite position when in the sack is probably doggy style. I do quite like the "lapdance" kinda position where he sits on a chair or whatever, it's intimate and cute... But when I get my first choice then it's always standing, usually up against a wall (or glass door if you like the embarassment factor). Preferably somewhere with that naughty factor where there's the [not too great] risk of getting caught. They don't call it a knee-trembler for nowt :thumb:
You wonder? I wonder myself sometimes! But I'm resigned to being flypaper for sexual deviants
I comfort myself with the thought that it'll all come in handy when I write my filthy best-selling novel :thumb:
But back to the thing, im with briggi on all the positions, Doggy is awesome, the lapdancer is fun...but you dont even need to be in a chair for it if the girl has strong knees and against a wall, tree, car bonet, toilet cubicle door...all good knee-tremblers as you put it.
As for nosies...well, im quite quiet, but not totally silent...surely that is impossible i would have thought.
HA, you cheeky git! :razz: A lady never tells...
But some of the weird things I've experienced have been with the same men, it has to be said. My most signifigant ex was the biggest culprit, so he had almost 2.5 years to expose the full extent of his freaky-deeky side. I also think that if you're open about what you like (even if it's a bit taboo) then your partners often follow suit, which is when the funniest and most bizarre stuff happens.
It is most certainly possible to be silent, though it must be an effort. I remember one time being all encouraging, telling this bloke to just let go etc and he refused point blank for aaaages. Then when he did make a noise it was the most disturbing thing I've ever heard. I can only liken it to the time I was walking through the woods in Austria at night and heard a goat or something being killed.
Or maybe one of those bizarre coincidences, and it was him having a wank in the woods, possibly over a slaughtered goat
He he, i do like to be cheeky from time to time though...
While reading that, I suppose I can take the fun out of everything
and because I feel so hyper after watching a good movie (opening night of The Parfum by Patrick Süßkind), I feel like hugging TheSite members and membernesses:
Doggie would be my favourite though I've experienced some 'large' young men who have managed to stop it being so comfy and nice.
I'm noisy, usually in a restrained way so as to be polite to the neighbours. I like someone who makes a little noise because it also leads to tidbits of conversation and being able to communicate in sex. I nookied with a silent guy last year at uni and (apart from being a total wankstain himself), he made me feel uncomfortable when we were trying to navigate around a single bed because we hadn't made any noise, saying something was unexpected and usually led to "what, what are you saying?" and ya know, being not as confident with a different sexual partner, trying to politely say "Do me doggy" was highly embarrassing and unsexy :grump:
Vigorous grabbing/groping is fine though
As for noise, yeh i like it when he's noisy, lets me know im doing something right.
Favourite position...not sure.
i can be noisy; i tend to find it turns me on more making a bit of noise. it's nice to just let it all out. i went camping with my ex and he had to put a pillow over my head so everyone around didn't hear, haha! i also like it when lads make a bit of noise otherwise i'm a bit like err.. well i tend to associate noise making with good sex. :yes:
As for biting, I WAS totally into that. I was seeing this guy once, just casually... and after one particular night I was covered in bruises from bites. Worth it though! :thumb: Now, I'm a bit more conservative in the bedroom...
Sometimes you just forget to take your socks off!!
I know... but it's only the odd occasion where there's no time spare for sock removal!
It's a necessity in a cold house though. And getting all warm in bed in a cold house is totally sexy :thumb:
Some girls like some quite heavy-duty spanking, and the crack of a leather belt on a naked bottom is a lovely sound.
The things you do for love.