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BillieTheBot
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OK, I got a little problem. Me and this girl used to fancy each other but by the time I asked her out a while ago she was off me. Fuck it!!! Anyway, since then I've been with and broken up with another girl. Yesterday the girl who used to fancy me and said she was moving to the states (shes so depressed and is going with her parents to get out of the counrty) and she wanted to have a child. The thing is she wants a British child (both parents british). She had gone round all the other boys she knew and they said no. Im the last one and she wants me to impregnate her before she leaves in 2 weeks. As you can imagine I told her to fuck herself as I would have no contact with her or the child other than letters. Though right now I don't want a kid and would not really care if she raised it without me as long as she looked after it good but one day when I get to that stage in life I will want a child and I'll realise I got one in america I haven't ever seen. Her parents are OK with it. Since I asked her out I have always been there for her and she occasionally asked me for advice and shes trying to get me to do it using pressure methods. Theres not really a problem as Im not going to do it but what are your opinions of this type of situation, is it right to give a girl a kid even if you don't want to raise it.
I think shes totally fucked up but what do you think.
I think shes totally fucked up but what do you think.
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If ya have a child n e way it'll always b on ur mind n u'll never be free of it...
Ur too young too have 1, my guess she is as well, be soo much hassle, me n my ex wer planning on it, bit of a fucked up reason though.. now I'd be regretting it big time... she did have a kid with some1 else n now she's a single mom at 20 not a nice thing to be
i think u definately made the right decision 4 u and the 'baby', she must b mad.
u'd have to put urself in the position of the child. i know if i never new my dad id want 2 find him. and the kid would probably grow up 2 resent the mum for her selfishness.
i used to think, when i was younger, that all kids need a dad, both parenys, but now im older, and thought about my family life etc, i dont agree its essential. although both would probably have more benefits, but on the other hand may not.
i think any parent that dosnt want their child is a selfish **** , if u dont want kids make sure u practice safe sex(if im offendin n e 1 then im sorry, but this subject pisses me off)
at 1 point in my life (when i was bout 16-17) i constantly thought of having a bump, and then a baby, i realy wanted 1, i still do now, but ive done a lot of growin up lately and realise i need a career and money, a stable home 4 my baby.(i aint gettin at any teenage mums either, i realy respect their decision, and support them fully)if i got pregnant though i would think about the situation, but i know in my heart of hearts id keep it.
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I think you have made the right choice doing what you have done, and I shake your hand coz a lot of blokes wouldnt <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">.
this is deep shit.
as much as you want her,
doing this shit is gonna be trouble and will haunt you for the rest of yer life.
respect to your choice. if i got pregnant i dont know what i would do, as i have just turned 18 and am only just starting to sort out some of my life. its too young for a child.
i cant believe that her parents are ok with that!
i know how the boozing thing feelds like, i have been like that since my other half split up with me!
good luck to yer hazza,
blessed be.
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Nephilim!