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LOVE ON THE NET
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Hi,
I few weeks ago I met a great guy in a chat room. We talked for hours on end every night for a couple of weeks and also e-mailed each other. We were getting on really well and eventually swapped mobile number. We decided to meet in person and actually met for the first time last weekend. It was a bit strange sitting there drinking coffee with a stranger but we got on great in person too.
We've arranged to meet this weekend too but since then I haven't really heard from him. He hasn't been meeting me in the chat room or replying to e-mails I've sent him. He still replies to text messages that I've sent him but seems reluctant to actually talk to me vocally.
I really don't know what I could have done wrong, I have this funny feeling he's gonna back out of meeting me at the weekend.
What do you all think I should do?
And do you think that love on the Internet can actually work?
[This message has been edited by GAGA (edited 11-10-2000).]
I few weeks ago I met a great guy in a chat room. We talked for hours on end every night for a couple of weeks and also e-mailed each other. We were getting on really well and eventually swapped mobile number. We decided to meet in person and actually met for the first time last weekend. It was a bit strange sitting there drinking coffee with a stranger but we got on great in person too.
We've arranged to meet this weekend too but since then I haven't really heard from him. He hasn't been meeting me in the chat room or replying to e-mails I've sent him. He still replies to text messages that I've sent him but seems reluctant to actually talk to me vocally.
I really don't know what I could have done wrong, I have this funny feeling he's gonna back out of meeting me at the weekend.
What do you all think I should do?
And do you think that love on the Internet can actually work?
[This message has been edited by GAGA (edited 11-10-2000).]
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Thanks J9, looks like you was right. We met again today and we got on great again. I asked him why he hadn't been talking to me all week and he said it was because last week we didn't have much to talk about because we'd said it all it the chat rooms. He also said that it felt a bit strange talking to me in the chat room after meeting because he wanted to talk to me face-to-face. Well, looks like love could be blossoming because we get on so well and we both really like each other.
From GAGA
P.S. Yes I did go to meet him by myself both times. But we met in a very public place first time (motorway service station) so there wasn't a problem, and thank god he is who he's said he was!!!!
[This message has been edited by GAGA (edited 14-10-2000).]
Just thought I'd let you hear about what I have to say cos you'll be hearing a lot from me in the future (you see I aint got nothing else to do any more) so I'll seeya all soon
Well fingers crossed that it works
Wish me luck
I let you know how it's going when I know myself
i rang him friday night to arrange meeting up on saturday, ie. what time? where?
he didn't answer so i txt him.
no reply.
txt him again, this time asking if he wants to c me this week.
no reply.
txt him again to ask y he's ignoring me. reply at last.
he's found some1 else, some1 he doesn't like as much as me, but she lives just down the road so he's gonna go off with her.
BASTARD.
I live just down the road 2, the road maybe the M1 and it's 50 miles down the road but it's a lame excuse.
i got the arse with him then eventually calmed down a bit. we talked 4 a while and we r gonna try 2 b friends. i can't c that working myself, like i'm gonna drive 50 miles 2 c a wanker who 2 timed me just for a friendly cuppa, no-chance.
i'm not gonna let it upset me tho, it's his loss