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A Love Triangle (again)
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Sorry for my problem being so commonplace...
It's a classical love triangle: I'm fed up with my boyfriend, 'cos there's no challenge anymore and I fancy his gorgeous blue-eyed mate. Is there any way to dump one and get another?
I'll hate to hurt my current bloke 'cos he's a nice guy and seems to care about me, but I'm so bored with him! On the other hand I'm very far from being sure that I can get it off with his mate and I'm scared to be left with nothing, i.e. lonely.
Please help, as it's getting pretty miserable <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif">
It's a classical love triangle: I'm fed up with my boyfriend, 'cos there's no challenge anymore and I fancy his gorgeous blue-eyed mate. Is there any way to dump one and get another?
I'll hate to hurt my current bloke 'cos he's a nice guy and seems to care about me, but I'm so bored with him! On the other hand I'm very far from being sure that I can get it off with his mate and I'm scared to be left with nothing, i.e. lonely.
Please help, as it's getting pretty miserable <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif">
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If that happens you've really messed up. Does your b/f still fancy you. If he does then I wouldn't want to move on unless you were sure how his mate felt about you.
Your bored, but in a couple of weeks you might really like him again. If your certain that its finished for good between you and your boyfriend, then let him down gradually before making a public move on his mate.
What ever you decide, hope all goes well in your tangled love life!
Take the risk. If I were you I would leave this relationship. Not sure about going for his mate though. Tough one this.
You are right, the toughest thing is to know if I get bored with a new bloke too...
Perhaps it's best not to rush things and wait. The only problem is that my b/f is constantly making public as well as private sexual advances and I don't fancy him in that way as much as it used to be before. And I reckon he noticed since he already asked what was wrong.
Frankly I'm a bit scared going for his mate now as I foresee a massive explosion 8-() and things might get out of control...