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what to do with someone who's too young to drink
BillieTheBot
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ok i know that sounds pathetic but i mean it in a less pathetic sense
theres this girl at work i am going to ask out tomorrow but she is only 17, i normally go for a drink with a girl but she does look kinda young and i dont want to cause her the embarrasment of getting id'd or something,
i dont like the cinema for first dates cos you dont really get to talk much and i dont want the back row snog pressure to be there (if we kiss on the first date then its all good but i dont wanna force it) i also think dinner is too much for a first date, maybe silly i know but its just me, our time restrictions are such that evening things are best, i want to go somewhere with people but thats private (like the pub) should i risk going to a bar with her or not?
theres this girl at work i am going to ask out tomorrow but she is only 17, i normally go for a drink with a girl but she does look kinda young and i dont want to cause her the embarrasment of getting id'd or something,
i dont like the cinema for first dates cos you dont really get to talk much and i dont want the back row snog pressure to be there (if we kiss on the first date then its all good but i dont wanna force it) i also think dinner is too much for a first date, maybe silly i know but its just me, our time restrictions are such that evening things are best, i want to go somewhere with people but thats private (like the pub) should i risk going to a bar with her or not?
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You can have fun and a natter without alcohol, you have something to giggle about if you find it hard to hit it off with her, and every time she goes to play you can sit back and admire her lovely little bottom.
A winning night out :thumb:
but seriously the local bowling alley is really bad, there is a local pub with a downstairs pool room we could play a few games and i get the drinks i guess,
That's the best bit about it.
Why are you obsessed about alcohol? The best dates never involve the stuff.
my first "date" with the wife was bowling, and i know other users on here have gone bowling first with their partners. its a great combination of having a laugh and having a perv.
Also, if there is a dcent fair around near you anywhere, take her there - fairs make for great dates, you can win them stuff on the games, hold their hand on the 'scary' rides and then let the kids in you come out by buying a big bag of candy floss
I don't think the pub is the best choice for a first date, simply because it is so dismally unimaginative. The ID issue doesn't even come into it.
You seem to want us to tell you to go to the pub though...pheh.
And seriously, don't underestimate the pleasure of watching her bend over and throw the ball down the lane
Ha ha ^^^^
Yeah I agree with this too, it doesn't matter if you are crap at bowling, it just makes it more of a laugh. :thumb:
I have to say though, pub dates always get a thumbs up from me...comfy sofas and beer
You can always park up somewhere and have a good chat
For non-pub things - what about a cafe or restaurant? If she's into art or history maybe look round local art galleries or museums. Are there any local parks or nature reserves or whatever? Some people are probably rolling their eyes & going "BOOOORRRING!" but not everyone is into non-stop pubbing & clubbing.
And don't just dismiss cinemas because you can't talk during the film - lots of cinemas have a little bar/lounge/cafe area. You can sit & talk about the film, which'll soon lead to other topics of conversation - great ice-breaker.
My thoughts exactly. What's wrong with you two going to the pub, but her having non-alcoholic drinks? That's what I did a few months ago wehn a few friends of mine took me out. It is possible to go out, not get drunk/not drink alcohol and still have a good time.
Well said :thumb:
It'd be nice if more people thought this way!
I absolutely assure you there's nothing more embarrasing than your 17 year old date waltzing straight in, and you standing there half cut trying to convince some big bald bloke you're 22 :no: