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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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hey ppl i have a slight problem, right there is this man and he is maybe bout 14 or 15 years older than me and whenever i see him he does nothing but flirt with me and the problem is i flirt back, i know i shouldnt but im a terrible flirt. the thing is now he is saying that he really fancies me and wants to show me how he feels the next time he gets me alone and i dont know wot to do. i dont really want anything to happen cos well for a start he is probably way more experienced than i am and also cos of the age difference. have any of u girls ever went with an older man and if so was it any good? also what should i do about this?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oh I just love "older man" topics <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    When I was 16 I went out with a guy who was 36, he was my superior at my work experience placement. I felt sooooo flattered to be chatted up by & asked out by a guy who was so much older than me.

    Well, we went out one evening and I realised what a complete wally he was. I realised then, that he only went for me because he couldn't get anyone of his own age-group. & his name was Alec Bumstead (roflol).

    That kind of age gap at that age was rediculous I now know, but it was fun at first.

    Now I'm much older, the age gap isn't so relevant. My husband is 15 years older than me, but it really doesn't matter. It's really not about the age gap, but more about interests, upbringing & background.

    j9
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I was wiv a 29 year old @ 16 n yes it was good lol

    but he was a total complete utter waster of time and a user n grr dont get me started.

    Some older men take the piss outta u cos ur younger.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    How old r u?....i was with a 30 year old and i'm 22, i know it aint a lot though.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im 18, i kinda dont wanna say too much incase he sees this but there is a bit more to the story, im just hopin that i dont end up being in a situation where im alone with him cos it'd totally freak me out
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It sounds a bit freaky me to, i would definately try to avoid him where possible in the hope that his feelings just fizzle out and he will forget about you, and i certainly wouldn't get into a situ where u are alone with him. If you are going somewhere where he mite be, take a load of friends with you. I know its tempting to Flirt back, but you can take it too far and then be accuse of leading them on if you catch my drift, don't want to sound like your mum or anything, but be very careful.
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