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Never Been Kissed!
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ok this is gonna sound really sad but im 14yrs old and have never been kissed!!!Im not desperate or anything, guys r interested in me and ive been out wiv um but never actually kissed ne1.Im really scared that wen i get a serious bf ill kiss him like fish and he'l go off me. all my freinds have kissed at least 5each. This is becoming a major problenm cos ive jus met this guy who is interested in me and wen i ask him how many girls he had kissed he said ova 200!
Plz has ne1 got ne advice???
Plz has ne1 got ne advice???
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either he's
(a) talking out of his arse, in which case he's a twat
(b) a full-on man slag, in which case dont have anything to do with him
or (c) just muckin about, in which case you dont need to worry about it.
seriously, you're only 14, so it really doesnt matter how many people you have or havent kissed. besides, you've got years of practice ahead of you <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
"we have intercourse in every direction" - Karl Marx, The Communist Manifesto (honest!!)
"The hardest part of loving is not when you get hurt. It's when you can't show the one you love how you feel because his heart already belongs to someone else."
(b) a full-on man slag, in which case dont have anything to do with him
or (c) just muckin about, in which case you dont need to worry about it.
I tought that at 1st but wen i asked him bout it he said that his m8s were havin sum kind of compotition 2 c who cud kiss the most girls in 1nite!!That jus made me feel bloody insecure cos he must have like loads of girls that like him and i aint kissed ne1!!!
"I see no vestage of a beginning, no sign of an end"
I've never kissed anyone and truelly meant it and I'm 17.
I personally don't see it as that big a deal anyway, except for it being something kinda special that you have waited and that.
kissing tip: try to avoid goldfish kisses(open and close mouth), be confident and kiss his top lip, then bottom lip, top, bottom etc. its really good! if u use a diff technique and it goes wrong say what i sed on my 1st kiss "that was a bit awkward coz my ex boyf kissed differently to that"
its not so scary after all!
Just dont worry about it, relax and go with the flow!
Oh and about the 200 girls thing- he is sooooo badly lying either to impress u (in which case be flattered) or he is just having a laugh.
RELAX GAL.
Eagles may soar but weasels don't get sucked into jet engiens
Yeah that was our intention <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"> *hug*
i'm sure everyone had this experience.. since then i've kissed loads of ppl, no i'm not a slag or anything like it, but i have a prob with keepin boyfreinds fo long.. ANYWAY!
i say you don't worry about it, coz i had to gradually learn by myself.. there's no one technique, everyone has there own way, you'll probably develop your own soon enough!
GOOD LUCK!
Devon
The earth is made of dirt and wood, and I'd be water if I could
Let him lead you, follow what he does and you'll soon have the hang of it!
Good Luck - let us know how it goes!
Love 'n' snuggles,
Mags
xx
Love 'n' snuggles
Mags
xx