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its happening too quick
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every time i have sex with my girlfriend... i will cum within like a miniute.
we dont use a condom.. because they never really worked out for me
but after i cum i sometimes still have an erection so we will have sex again and it will probley last like.. 4 mins but the erection goes away.... as embrassing as that sounds... its true.
why does this happen?
thanks
we dont use a condom.. because they never really worked out for me
but after i cum i sometimes still have an erection so we will have sex again and it will probley last like.. 4 mins but the erection goes away.... as embrassing as that sounds... its true.
why does this happen?
thanks
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They're not always that comfy, but they're more comfortable than AIDS.
Premature ejaculation is a common problem for young men who have just started having sex. Premature ejaculation.
Anyway, what you're suffering from is most probably premature ejaculation. Consider this. Are you ever nervous before sex? During sex, are you just worrying about how quickly it will be before you ejaculate? Do you worry about what the woman of your life will think about your performance? If you said yes to all those, this is most probably what you've got. It helps to be very relaxed before sex, and don't worry if you shoot your load too soon - every man has days like that, even if most men would never admit to it.
also don't just bang away like you see in porn. relax and go slowly and if you feel like you're gona cum then stop for a minute and pleasure or kiss your girl and then go back to it.
Anyway thats my rant over, clearly im overly enthusiastic being a n00bie!
There's exercises you can do. Called Kegels. It's the muscle you use to control the flow of urine. You tighten and relax the muscle over and over. Say 100 times a day. It gives you a lot more control.
To everyone else:
Read the OPs post and then look what it says under his name.