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Just don't know what to do...
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Evening all,
firstly, this is my first post so please go easy on me! Although I have been a lurker now for a while.
Well basically I'd just appreciate a bit of advice on opinion on the situation I'm in with a girl that I like, and who I believe also likes me.
I've been getting quite close to a girl for a while now, since about errrm last September. I've only really started to realise how much I liked her in the past 2 months or so.
I just can't seem to make myself show any emotions to her in person or make a pass at her. When my parents brought me up they sort of brought me up to be "emotionally on my own", I never talked about girls or anything like that with them. Hell they didnt even know I was interested in girls until I was 16!
So I would really appreciate it if anyone could be kind enough to just offer me any advice or just voice their opinion.
Many Thanks, James
firstly, this is my first post so please go easy on me! Although I have been a lurker now for a while.
Well basically I'd just appreciate a bit of advice on opinion on the situation I'm in with a girl that I like, and who I believe also likes me.
I've been getting quite close to a girl for a while now, since about errrm last September. I've only really started to realise how much I liked her in the past 2 months or so.
I just can't seem to make myself show any emotions to her in person or make a pass at her. When my parents brought me up they sort of brought me up to be "emotionally on my own", I never talked about girls or anything like that with them. Hell they didnt even know I was interested in girls until I was 16!
So I would really appreciate it if anyone could be kind enough to just offer me any advice or just voice their opinion.
Many Thanks, James
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Have a look at this thread for some ideas on how to broach it to this girl that you like her:
http://vbulletin.thesite.org.uk/showthread.php?t=102073
Good luck!
At the moment we're just close friends. We flirt with each other a lot, like every time we talk! We see each other usually at the weekend, and also a few times in the evenings in the weekday. Yeh, im absolutely certain she likes me.
I guess im just really shy, does anyone have any ideas how I can get over this damn shyness?
many many thanks, James
Sorry I haven't got back to you all sooner. I can't thank you enough for all your advice!
Last night I went round to her place to keep her company whilst her parents were out and I just took the plunge and kissed her. It was awesome. I absolutely loved it, so we spent the best part of that evening in each others arms kissing each other. This again happened tonight and I just can't describe it. Its just well...wow!!
Anyway, many many thanks for your words of wisdom....they really do help!
Keep up the good work, James
See, if you're fairly sure that someone likes you, then she'll find it much sexier if you're just confident and go for it. Good luck with the rest of it now.
i love hearing good news for a change!!
Reminds me of what happened with myself and someone a couple of months back, it was amazing so hearing this makes me feel all warm inside
hope it goes well for you both