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question for men....would it put you off if....
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....Every time you had had the oppurtunity to be "naughty" with your sexual partner so far (say...about 5 or 6 times), if that person wouldnt let you do anything to them, but still do stuff to you?
Would it put you off that person? Would it frustrate you? Would you carry on accepting these "gifts" in the future even though your not able to give anything back?
Or would you just think wow because your getting all this pleasure without having to even give anything back?
Would it put you off that person? Would it frustrate you? Would you carry on accepting these "gifts" in the future even though your not able to give anything back?
Or would you just think wow because your getting all this pleasure without having to even give anything back?
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It would probably annoy me to be honest.
yeh i generally wanted testosterone driven answers but any female input is fine stacey
Amazing what they do in surgery those days...
u say sometimes, does that mean you would be happy to accept one sided sex for the majority of the time as long as you can return the favour sometimes?
It sounds like he's worried about something. Be really sensitive about it and next time and tell him you'd like to return the favour, if he's still reserved about it be gentle and ask him why? Whatever the reason is, tell him it's not a problem at all and that your more than willing to help him get over it!
er, what?
I dont have a sexual partner with that problem, and never implied that i did. it was just a general question!
Besides, my question was aimed at men getting given the pleasure and not being able to return it to the women, im a woman.
bit harsh, one generally presumes that you are asking for yourself when we see these kind of questions, it would be a strange thing just to wonder....
its like those you see "i'm asking for my friend...." they are so obviously not
I was just confused as to how cptcoathanger got "my male partner wont let me return the favour" from "how would men feel if the woman didnt let you return the favour"
surely if my question is about something real happening to me then it would be that i do things for him but dont let him do anything back
oh ok then, well just to clarify, im not having the problem of a man not returning the favour to me
i just wondered what a mans perspective would be, ie would it bother a man if he wasnt allowed to return the favour
while one sided sex would still be nice, orgasms and all, i wouldnt like it to be one sided completely
One of my exes really pissed me off though when all he wanted was to receive, he never gave. He wanted about a zillion blow jobs/handjobs a day yet gave me nothing :impissed:
I know what you mean, Stacey - I had an ex like that, I was giving about 3 or 4 blowjobs a day and not getting much back! Does that sound familar?
My ex always wanted blow jobs and handjobs on a daily basis!
I never got anything in return.
Funnily enough, my sex drive took a dive and doing them became a chore.
Good point.
Wow...nothing at all? At least I got some oral now and again...would you give him more than one blowjob a day then? If you did, and you received nothing in return makes him sound like a very selfish guy! Why are they like this...do they ever have pangs of guilt I wonder? Take, take, take...