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Hi
Sorry this has probably been asked before and I have tried searching but couldn't find it!
Basically I had sex last night, first time any kinda action for just under a year and was with a guy I knew and that so its all cool, just a bit of fun, and he was the most active I've ever been with and that if you get what I mean.
Well basically afterwards I was bleeding a fair bit, it was really embarrasing, and I didn't know what to say or anything, bet he thinks I'm a right freak!
Why do you think this happened?
Possibly because of lack of action for a while so was maybe anxious but I was relaxed and there was plenty of foreplay so not that and I have no signs of any infections or pain or anything,
I felt awful this morning, I kinda wanna text him saying sorry and if he wants to do it again thats cool-as a casual thing, don't want anything serious or anything
what you think?
thanks
Sorry this has probably been asked before and I have tried searching but couldn't find it!
Basically I had sex last night, first time any kinda action for just under a year and was with a guy I knew and that so its all cool, just a bit of fun, and he was the most active I've ever been with and that if you get what I mean.
Well basically afterwards I was bleeding a fair bit, it was really embarrasing, and I didn't know what to say or anything, bet he thinks I'm a right freak!
Why do you think this happened?
Possibly because of lack of action for a while so was maybe anxious but I was relaxed and there was plenty of foreplay so not that and I have no signs of any infections or pain or anything,
I felt awful this morning, I kinda wanna text him saying sorry and if he wants to do it again thats cool-as a casual thing, don't want anything serious or anything
what you think?
thanks
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Hardly your fault, I wouldn't be embarrassed.
now the big question is should i text or just leave it?!
he wasn't really making a big deal about it didn't seem bothered to be honest, I just hadn't seen as much blood during sex before, think it was just the roughness
had it a lot worse that that it wasn't sore at all