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Does anyone else ever feel like crap sometimes?
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Does anyone else ever feel shitty after sexual activity, and you ask her if she wants you to change anything, but then lists like, 5 things you're doing wrong or not as good as could be?
I mean, I know communication is the key with sex, but, my ego is shot to hell like, everytime we communicate about it...
Buh...
I mean, I know communication is the key with sex, but, my ego is shot to hell like, everytime we communicate about it...
Buh...
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Can't list anything cos there is nothing to list...
Check thesite for hints and tips as well as the web, after when you are doing something right no need to ask you will see by yourself by her reaction to it...
Don't take is so personally. If you accept that perhaps you are not the hottest lover in town then you can use the hints and tips that she gives you to do it right next time ...
lol... Learn on the web how t use it tho, cos misuse can lead to damages...
I've done the "lists" with my "friend" and it helped actually... we are both too fucking pround to come up with the subject, so it worked...
Communication is the key to great sex, but I think it's a lot better to ask before or during rather than after the fact.
Try not to take it too personally. It's never nice to be told what you're doing wrong, but look on the postive side, next time you have a list of new things to do that you know she will love!
Conversly, I sometimes ask my girlfriend if she wants anything new, whether i'm doing what she wants etc. and she never has anything to say. I know i'm not that good, so she's either just really really shy about the whole thing or just doesn't want to hurt my feelings. She is extremely bad at communicating anyway. So to know that I could be doing more/better things for her but never being able to find out I feel is much worse than being told what I should be doing differntly.
So don't worry! It could be worse!