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creepy man
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Wasn't really too sure about where to post this - it is kind of to do with relationships, but here goes anyway...
On another forum I use the guy who runs it (the admin type person) is a bit of a creep. I didn't always think so, I exchanged a few PMs with him a couple of years ago until he started getting a bit fresh with me and being sexually explicit. When I didn't respond to PMs and stuff he hacked into the database to find my e-mail and harrass me through that. He was constantly pestering me and things got a bit much. He eventually stopped and left me alone when I started dating my boyfriend.
I've since found out that he was also harrasing another girl I was in touch with in the same way...
I told this guy in no uncertain terms that if I ever found out he was doing this again I'd make sure he got in trouble for it.
This week he's started to harrass one of my closest friends. I warned he about him and what he was like so she is aware of it, but he won't leave her alone - making personal comments, being too forward with her and asking her private questions about herself.
She's very upset, and I am too - it's bringing back a lot of crappy memories of how he upset me and made me feel shit about myself.
The thing is that this forum is a support forum, somewhere where a lot of very vulnerable folks go to seek help and advice and I feel this guy is taking advantage of that situation and in a way preying on vulnerable women.
What do I do? Is there anyone I can complain to about him? How best can I help put a stop to it before real damage is done?
Thanks in advance for any help
Love cavey
xx
On another forum I use the guy who runs it (the admin type person) is a bit of a creep. I didn't always think so, I exchanged a few PMs with him a couple of years ago until he started getting a bit fresh with me and being sexually explicit. When I didn't respond to PMs and stuff he hacked into the database to find my e-mail and harrass me through that. He was constantly pestering me and things got a bit much. He eventually stopped and left me alone when I started dating my boyfriend.
I've since found out that he was also harrasing another girl I was in touch with in the same way...
I told this guy in no uncertain terms that if I ever found out he was doing this again I'd make sure he got in trouble for it.
This week he's started to harrass one of my closest friends. I warned he about him and what he was like so she is aware of it, but he won't leave her alone - making personal comments, being too forward with her and asking her private questions about herself.
She's very upset, and I am too - it's bringing back a lot of crappy memories of how he upset me and made me feel shit about myself.
The thing is that this forum is a support forum, somewhere where a lot of very vulnerable folks go to seek help and advice and I feel this guy is taking advantage of that situation and in a way preying on vulnerable women.
What do I do? Is there anyone I can complain to about him? How best can I help put a stop to it before real damage is done?
Thanks in advance for any help
Love cavey
xx
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I'd like to make it quite clear it's on another forum i use and most definitely not this site .
That doesn't help the friend or others he may prey on in the future though.
I agree with the people that have said save the messages, and consider talking to the other admins/a higher power if you can.
PM me with the details of the site and I'll see what I can do for you .
Of course, you'll have to have sex with me and let me make kinky comments in public.
Just kidding! It's an honest offer .
I know that - having had an old email address of mine being hacked into...